{"product_id":"beyond-love-trauma-paul-a-wagner-9781946743039","title":"Beyond Love Trauma","description":"\u003cp\u003eDiscover the Three Intimacies and How They Work Together. \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eSo you're truly over your divorce? You've fought the furies, you've escaped that feeling of being kept in limbo, you've learned to live alone, you have been through what we call \u003ci\u003eLove Trauma.\u003c\/i\u003e Now you're ready for \u003ci\u003eBeyond Love Trauma.\u003c\/i\u003e In this new second book of Wagner's \u003ci\u003eLove Trauma\u003c\/i\u003e series, he insists on the maxim \"Know Thyself.\" If you're ready to move into a new relationship, this is your mantra. You can't become the ultimate \"catch\" if you don't know yourself. \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003ePerhaps the most useful part of \u003ci\u003eBeyond Love Trauma\u003c\/i\u003e is Wagner's description of the three intimacies: \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e-sexual, \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e-intellectual, and \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e-emotional. \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eAs Wagner argues, all three are necessary for a romance to achieve, finally, what he describes as the ultimate relationship, one of \"erotic love.\" \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eTo be afraid to be alone is not a good reason to marry. And marriage-or any romantic relationship-is not a place to think \"What's in it for me?\" A committed marriage requires an attitude of \"How can we pursue a long-term goal?\" what Wagner calls a \"life commitment.\" \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eFrom an in-depth discussion on places to meet others to attacking the \"ideal\" that divorcees set up for themselves, the second book takes a hard look at the ways in which men and women sabotage their efforts to \"get back into the game.\" \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eHe urges divorcees to take their time moving forward, establish trust and respect, before leaping into marriage or another relationship. \u003ci\u003eBeyond Love Trauma\u003c\/i\u003e is a book which will set you free to negotiate the effects of \u003ci\u003eLove Trauma.\u003c\/i\u003e \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eAward:2019 International Book Awards - Health: Psychology\/Mental Health - Finalist\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eAuthor:\u003c\/b\u003e Paul A. Wagner\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eISBN-10:\u003c\/b\u003e 1946743038\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eISBN-13:\u003c\/b\u003e 9781946743039\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublisher:\u003c\/b\u003e 3rd Coast Books L.L.C.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eLanguage:\u003c\/b\u003e English\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublished:\u003c\/b\u003e 01\/28\/2018\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePages:\u003c\/b\u003e 254\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eFormat:\u003c\/b\u003e Paperback\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eWeight:\u003c\/b\u003e 0.83lbs\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eSize:\u003c\/b\u003e 9.00h x 6.00w x 0.58d\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Paul A. Wagner","offers":[{"title":"Paperback","offer_id":48519685112063,"sku":"9781946743039","price":14.95,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0662\/2982\/9887\/files\/img_6ea26306-74f5-4ea7-97c0-1983fce87232.jpg?v=1778738201","url":"https:\/\/www.whiterainbookhouse.com\/products\/beyond-love-trauma-paul-a-wagner-9781946743039","provider":"WR Book House","version":"1.0","type":"link"}