{"product_id":"chosen-gently-matthew-petchinsky-9798295579097","title":"Chosen Gently","description":"\u003cp\u003e\u003cem\u003eChosen Gently\u003c\/em\u003e is a compassionate guide for disabled daters who want love that feels safe, steady, and respectful-not overwhelming or consuming. In a dating culture that often mistakes intensity for passion and pressure for desire, this book offers a different path: one where attraction unfolds calmly, boundaries are honored, and care is consistent.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWritten with deep emotional insight and nervous-system awareness, \u003cem\u003eChosen Gently\u003c\/em\u003e helps readers recognize the difference between being wanted and being overrun. It explores why chaos can feel familiar, how slowness creates emotional safety, and what healthy desire looks like when it respects capacity, autonomy, and real-life limits. Through reflective guidance, practical practices, and gentle reframing, readers are supported in trusting calm affection without dismissing it as boredom or lack of chemistry.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThis book is especially written for disabled people navigating dating alongside chronic illness, pain, fatigue, neurodivergence, or invisible disabilities-but its message resonates with anyone seeking sustainable, emotionally mature love.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cem\u003eChosen Gently\u003c\/em\u003e does not teach you how to perform for love.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIt teaches you how to recognize love that knows how to stay.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eAuthor:\u003c\/b\u003e Matthew Petchinsky\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eISBN-13:\u003c\/b\u003e 9798295579097\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublisher:\u003c\/b\u003e Apophis Enterprises LLC\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eLanguage:\u003c\/b\u003e English\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublished:\u003c\/b\u003e 01\/26\/2026\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePages:\u003c\/b\u003e 114\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eFormat:\u003c\/b\u003e Paperback\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eWeight:\u003c\/b\u003e 0.36lbs\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eSize:\u003c\/b\u003e 9.00h x 6.00w x 0.24d","brand":"Matthew Petchinsky","offers":[{"title":"Paperback","offer_id":49172022231295,"sku":"9798295579097","price":11.99,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"url":"https:\/\/www.whiterainbookhouse.com\/products\/chosen-gently-matthew-petchinsky-9798295579097","provider":"WR Book House","version":"1.0","type":"link"}