{"product_id":"data-for-data-thomas-beavers-9798253792575","title":"Data for Data","description":"\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eStop Dating on Feelings. Start Gathering Facts.\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cp\u003eYou've been told that if you love each other, everything will work out. You've been sold the lie that \"following your heart\" is enough.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eBut 50% of marriages end in divorce-many of them started with love, chemistry, and good intentions.\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWhat went wrong? \u003cb\u003eThey ignored the data.\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eThe painful truth: Most people spend more time researching which car to buy than who to marry.\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cp\u003eThey dive into relationships based on attraction, excitement, and hope-without asking the hard questions that reveal compatibility, character, and readiness for covenant.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eThen they wonder why marriage is so hard.\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eWhat if there was a better way?\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cp\u003eWhat if you could enter marriage with \u003cb\u003econfidence\u003c\/b\u003e instead of just \u003cb\u003ehope\u003c\/b\u003e?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWhat if you could gather the data you need to make a wise, God-honoring decision about the most important relationship of your life?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eThat's what this book is about.\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eDating for Data\u003c\/b\u003e gives you a proven, biblical framework to evaluate relationships through \u003cb\u003ethree non-negotiable questions: \u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eTHE QUESTION OF FAITH\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cp\u003eIs this person truly saved? Do they hold Christ as Lord, not just Savior? Are they in church? Are they passionately pursuing God-or just maintaining?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eWithout spiritual alignment, you cannot build oneness.\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cb\u003eTHE QUESTION OF FAMILY\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cp\u003eWhat family patterns did they inherit? Have they done the healing work to break generational cycles? Can two family systems merge-or will they collide?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eYour future spouse didn't come out of nowhere. They came from somewhere. And that somewhere shaped who they are.\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cb\u003eTHE QUESTION OF FINANCE\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cp\u003eHow do they handle money? What's their work history? What debt are they carrying? What does their credit report reveal about their integrity?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eMoney doesn't just reveal spending habits. It reveals what someone worships, trusts, and prioritizes.\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eBut this book goes beyond the three questions.\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cp\u003eYou'll also learn: \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eHow to break soul ties\u003c\/b\u003e from past relationships that are keeping you from bonding in marriage\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eWhy physical boundaries aren't legalistic\u003c\/b\u003e-they're protective, and how to build intimacy without touch\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eThe red flags, yellow flags, and green lights\u003c\/b\u003e in every area: faith, family, finance, work, emotional health, and purity\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eWhen to engage and when to disengage\u003c\/b\u003e-and how to make the decision with clarity, not fear\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eHow to prepare for oneness\u003c\/b\u003e through 12 essential conversations every couple must have before marriage\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eHow to thrive in singleness\u003c\/b\u003e while you wait-because your life doesn't begin when you get married\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eWhy marriage is a Kingdom assignment\u003c\/b\u003e, not just a personal relationship-and how to build something that impacts eternity\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eThis is not a book about finding your soulmate.\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cp\u003eThis is a book about \u003cb\u003egathering the right information, making wise decisions, and building a marriage that glorifies God and lasts a lifetime.\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePerfect for: \u003c\/b\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eSingles\u003c\/b\u003e who want to date with purpose and wisdom\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eDating couples\u003c\/b\u003e who need clarity on whether to move forward or walk away\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eEngaged couples\u003c\/b\u003e preparing for covenant marriage\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003ePastors and counselors\u003c\/b\u003e looking for a comprehensive premarital resource\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eParents\u003c\/b\u003e who want to guide their children toward healthy relationships\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eStop guessing. Start gathering data.\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cp\u003eMarriage is too important to leave to chance.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eGet the information you need. Make the decision with confidence. Build a covenant that lasts.\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eAuthor:\u003c\/b\u003e Thomas Beavers\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eISBN-13:\u003c\/b\u003e 9798253792575\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublisher:\u003c\/b\u003e Independently Published\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eLanguage:\u003c\/b\u003e English\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublished:\u003c\/b\u003e 03\/26\/2026\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePages:\u003c\/b\u003e 296\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eFormat:\u003c\/b\u003e Paperback\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eWeight:\u003c\/b\u003e 0.88lbs\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eSize:\u003c\/b\u003e 9.00h x 6.00w x 0.62d","brand":"Thomas Beavers","offers":[{"title":"Paperback","offer_id":48997583487231,"sku":"9798253792575","price":19.97,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"url":"https:\/\/www.whiterainbookhouse.com\/products\/data-for-data-thomas-beavers-9798253792575","provider":"WR Book House","version":"1.0","type":"link"}