{"product_id":"dont-alienate-the-kids-bill-eddy-9781950057948","title":"Don't Alienate the Kids!: Raising Resilient Children While Avoiding High-Conflict Divorce","description":"\u003cp\u003eIn this tenth anniversary edition of \u003ci\u003eDon't Alienate the Kids!\u003c\/i\u003e attorney, mediator, and therapist Bill Eddy shows readers how to protect children from the harm of alienation and high-conflict divorce, boosting their resilience by teaching them to think flexibly, manage their emotions, and moderate their behaviors.\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eWe all know breakups can get ugly. But sometimes they can get downright vicious, with badmouthing, brainwashing, and allegations of alienation, child abuse and domestic violence, all leading to nasty custody battles.\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eAnd when they do, it's the children who suffer most. During a high-conflict divorce or separation, kids can develop lifelong habits of all-or-nothing thinking, unregulated emotions, and extreme behaviors. Professionals who want to help may unintentionally make things worse, believing everything a parent says or taking sides.\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eNo one can solve this problem alone. That's because the wall of alienation between parent and child is built by: \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cli\u003ethe family's own patterns of conflict\u003c\/li\u003e \u003cli\u003e family court professionals who get emotionally \"hooked\"\u003c\/li\u003e \u003cli\u003e society's rapidly escalating culture of blame\u003c\/li\u003e  \u003cp\u003eBut there's hope! Readers can help kids learn flexible thinking, emotion regulation, effective behaviors, and healthy relationships.\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eEveryone involved must work together. This book shows how parents, family members, friends, counselors, lawyers, parenting coordinators, divorce coaches, and family court judges can become part of the solution, giving children a foundation of resilience that will last a lifetime.\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eBill Eddy is cofounder of the High Conflict Institute and the author or coauthor of thirteen books, including \u003ci\u003eFive Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life\u003c\/i\u003e, \u003ci\u003eBIFF\u003c\/i\u003e, and \u003ci\u003eSplitting\u003c\/i\u003e.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eAuthor:\u003c\/b\u003e Bill Eddy\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eISBN-10:\u003c\/b\u003e 1950057941\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eISBN-13:\u003c\/b\u003e 9781950057948\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublisher:\u003c\/b\u003e Unhooked Books\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eLanguage:\u003c\/b\u003e English\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublished:\u003c\/b\u003e 04\/21\/2020\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePages:\u003c\/b\u003e 336\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eFormat:\u003c\/b\u003e Paperback\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eWeight:\u003c\/b\u003e 1.10lbs\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eSize:\u003c\/b\u003e 8.90h x 6.10w x 0.90d","brand":"Bill Eddy","offers":[{"title":"Paperback","offer_id":43987377717503,"sku":"9781950057948","price":16.95,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0662\/2982\/9887\/files\/img_cd80cd61-52ec-47b0-9096-b81f641e1d90.jpg?v=1683288627","url":"https:\/\/www.whiterainbookhouse.com\/products\/dont-alienate-the-kids-bill-eddy-9781950057948","provider":"WR Book House","version":"1.0","type":"link"}