{"product_id":"earned-secure-attachment-maureen-riche-9798258577955","title":"Earned Secure Attachment: How to Reparent Yourself, Restore Attachment Wounds, and Build Lasting Emotional Security","description":"\u003cp\u003eYou did not arrive in this world guarded. You were not born scanning faces for signs of danger, bracing for disappointment, or rehearsing the moment someone you love would leave. That came later. And it came not because something is wrong with you, but because something happened to you, something that taught your nervous system, before you had language to question it, that love was conditional, connection was fragile, and your place in someone's heart had to be constantly earned.\u003cbr\u003e \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIf you grew up with a parent who was warm on Tuesday and gone on Friday, you learned to never stop watching. If your home was physically present but emotionally empty, you learned to need less until you forgot how to need at all. If love and fear came from the same person, you learned the exhausting dance of reaching and retreating in the same breath. These were not failures. They were brilliant survival strategies. But the strategies that kept you alive then are now keeping you from fully living.\u003cbr\u003e \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eEarning Secure Attachment is the book that moves you from understanding your patterns to actually changing them. Not through insight alone, but through reparenting, somatic healing, and the deliberate practice of building what was never given to you freely.\u003cbr\u003e \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eInside you will discover: \u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eHow attachment forms in the body, and why knowing your style has not been enough to change it\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eYour core wounds are named precisely: abandonment, rejection, defectiveness, deprivation, and enmeshment\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eThe five pillars of reparenting: consistency, validation, protection, comfort, and delight\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eBody-based practices that reach where talk and analysis cannot\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eHow to stop choosing what is familiar over what is healthy\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eScripts for conflict, repair, and asking for what you need without shame\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eCo-regulation: building a network of people who settle your nervous system instead of activating it\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eThe coherent narrative: making sense of your story so it stops running your life from underground\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eA 30-day practice guide for building earned security one day at a time\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003cp\u003eThe research is detailed: you do not need a secure childhood to become a securely attached adult. You need honesty, practice, and a willingness to give yourself what you deserve but never received.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThis book is where that begins. Get your copy now.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eAuthor:\u003c\/b\u003e Maureen Riche\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eISBN-13:\u003c\/b\u003e 9798258577955\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublisher:\u003c\/b\u003e Independently Published\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eLanguage:\u003c\/b\u003e English\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublished:\u003c\/b\u003e 04\/23\/2026\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePages:\u003c\/b\u003e 158\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eFormat:\u003c\/b\u003e Paperback\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eWeight:\u003c\/b\u003e 0.84lbs\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eSize:\u003c\/b\u003e 11.00h x 8.50w x 0.34d","brand":"Maureen Riche","offers":[{"title":"Paperback","offer_id":48588505710847,"sku":"9798258577955","price":14.67,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0662\/2982\/9887\/files\/img_1b8cea15-9a5c-46c2-887f-4e809636e5ed.jpg?v=1780175284","url":"https:\/\/www.whiterainbookhouse.com\/products\/earned-secure-attachment-maureen-riche-9798258577955","provider":"WR Book House","version":"1.0","type":"link"}