{"product_id":"get-selfish-bryan-white-9798297195288","title":"Get Selfish: Filling Your Bucket First","description":"\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eYou can keep pouring from an empty bucket-but eventually, something breaks.\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eYou keep working. Keep giving. Keep saying yes. Keep carrying responsibilities no one else seems to notice.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eFrom the outside, your life may look fine. Inside, you are exhausted, disconnected, resentful, and quietly wondering when you stopped recognizing the person in the mirror.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eYou are not broken. You may simply be depleted.\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003ci\u003eGet Selfish: Filling Your Bucket First\u003c\/i\u003e is not about becoming careless, greedy, or indifferent to the people you love. It is about ending the cycle of abandoning yourself to keep everyone else comfortable.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIn his raw, direct, no-BS style, Bryan White shares his journey through debt, denial, damaged relationships, people-pleasing, emotional disconnection, destructive distractions, and survival mode-and the difficult work of rebuilding from the inside out.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eUsing the powerful metaphor of your personal bucket and a practical \u003cb\u003e15-stage roadmap for transformation\u003c\/b\u003e, this book challenges you to examine what is draining you, what has damaged you, what needs to change, and who you are ready to become.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eInside, you will learn how to: \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e- Stop confusing self-neglect with love, loyalty, or responsibility\u003cbr\u003e- Recognize the people, beliefs, habits, and pressures draining your bucket\u003cbr\u003e- Set boundaries without constantly apologizing for having them\u003cbr\u003e- Take responsibility for your choices, finances, health, and future\u003cbr\u003e- Replace temporary band-aids with honest, sustainable change\u003cbr\u003e- Turn good intentions into disciplined action\u003cbr\u003e- Rebuild your confidence, identity, energy, and direction\u003cbr\u003e- Care for your mind, body, and spirit without guilt\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThis is not a motivational sugar rush or a promise of overnight transformation. Each section includes direct reflection questions designed to make you stop, look honestly at your life, and confront the answers you may have been avoiding.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eYou have spent enough time dimming your light, wearing the mask, and pouring from an empty bucket.\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIt is time to refill.\u003cbr\u003eIt is time to reset.\u003cbr\u003eIt is time to reclaim your life.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eGet selfish-so you can finally become whole enough to show up fully for yourself and the people who matter most.\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eAuthor:\u003c\/b\u003e Bryan White\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eISBN-13:\u003c\/b\u003e 9798297195288\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublisher:\u003c\/b\u003e Independently Published\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eLanguage:\u003c\/b\u003e English\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublished:\u003c\/b\u003e 08\/16\/2025\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePages:\u003c\/b\u003e 212\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eFormat:\u003c\/b\u003e Paperback\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eWeight:\u003c\/b\u003e 0.58lbs\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eSize:\u003c\/b\u003e 9.00h x 6.00w x 0.53d","brand":"Bryan White","offers":[{"title":"Paperback","offer_id":49170051399935,"sku":"9798297195288","price":10.99,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"url":"https:\/\/www.whiterainbookhouse.com\/products\/get-selfish-bryan-white-9798297195288","provider":"WR Book House","version":"1.0","type":"link"}