{"product_id":"he-said-she-said-and-kofi-andoh-9798295563256","title":"He Said, She Said, And All The Bullshit In Between: An immigrant's perspective on Love and Romance in America","description":"\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eModern love is a mess. Here's the bullshit-free version.\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eHe crossed an ocean and landed in Southern California-only to find that American dating felt less like romance and more like a covert operation.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIn He Said, She Said, and All the Bullshit In-between, African immigrant Kofi Andoh takes a sharp, funny, and brutally honest look at love and dating in America, colliding his upbringing's idea of connection with a culture of hyper-individualism and curated loneliness.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eHe dives into: \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\"School dance syndrome\" and why we're all waiting for someone else to make the first move\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eHyper-individualism, pet-obsessed loneliness, and the fear of real intimacy\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eDating apps, mind games, and the performance of \"fake feminism\"\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eThe quiet lies we tell ourselves to survive modern romance\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003cp\u003eThrough cultural critique, personal stories, and uncomfortable truths that still make you laugh, Andoh exposes the scripts we follow without question.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eBlunt, insightful, and refreshingly bullshit-free, this isn't a dating manual and it isn't a bitter rant. It's an invitation to rethink what you've been taught about love and start building relationships rooted in clarity, courage, and compassion.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eFor lovers, skeptics, the heartbroken, and the hopeful, this book will change how you see romance-and maybe, finally, how you see each other.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eAuthor:\u003c\/b\u003e Kofi Andoh\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eISBN-13:\u003c\/b\u003e 9798295563256\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublisher:\u003c\/b\u003e Kofi Andoh\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eLanguage:\u003c\/b\u003e English\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublished:\u003c\/b\u003e 02\/14\/2026\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePages:\u003c\/b\u003e 158\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eFormat:\u003c\/b\u003e Hardcover\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eWeight:\u003c\/b\u003e 0.63lbs\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eSize:\u003c\/b\u003e 8.00h x 5.00w x 0.44d\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eLarge Print\u003c\/b\u003e","brand":"Kofi Andoh","offers":[{"title":"Hardcover","offer_id":48176138715391,"sku":"9798295563256","price":16.99,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0662\/2982\/9887\/files\/img_cb8d9597-069f-429b-860e-f9467b2ffb6f.jpg?v=1771336678","url":"https:\/\/www.whiterainbookhouse.com\/products\/he-said-she-said-and-kofi-andoh-9798295563256","provider":"WR Book House","version":"1.0","type":"link"}