{"product_id":"how-can-i-forgive-you-janis-a-spring-9780060009311","title":"How Can I Forgive You?: The Courage to Forgive, the Freedom Not to","description":"\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e\"If you are struggling with issues of betrayal--or the challenge of whether and how to forgive--here is the most helpful and surprising book you will ever find on the subject.\"--Harriet Lerner, Ph.D., author of \u003cem\u003eThe Dance of Anger\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eEveryone is struggling to forgive someone: an unfaithful partner, an alcoholic parent, an ungrateful child, a terrorist. This award-winning book provides a radical way for hurt parties to heal themselves--without forgiving, as well as a way for offenders to earn genuine forgiveness.\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eUntil now, we've been taught that forgiveness is good for us and that good people forgive. Dr. Janis Abrahms Spring, a gifted clinical psychologist and award-winning author of \u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cem\u003eAfter the Affair, \u003c\/em\u003e proposes a radical, life-affirming alternative that lets us overcome the corrosive effects of hate and get on with our lives--without forgiving. She also offers a powerful and unconventional model for earning genuine forgiveness--one that asks as much of the offender as it does of the hurt party.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eBeautifully written and filled with insight, practical advice, and poignant case studies, this bold and healing book offers step-by-step, concrete instructions that help us make peace with others and ourselves, while answering such crucial questions as these: \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cul\u003eHow do I forgive someone who is unremorseful or dead?When is forgiveness cheap?Can I heal myself - without forgiving?How can the offender earn forgiveness?What makes for a good apology?How do we forgive ourselves for hurting another human being?\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eAuthor:\u003c\/b\u003e Janis A. Spring\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eISBN-10:\u003c\/b\u003e 0060009314\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eISBN-13:\u003c\/b\u003e 9780060009311\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublisher:\u003c\/b\u003e Harper Paperbacks\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eLanguage:\u003c\/b\u003e English\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublished:\u003c\/b\u003e 02\/01\/2005\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePages:\u003c\/b\u003e 254\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eFormat:\u003c\/b\u003e Paperback\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eWeight:\u003c\/b\u003e 0.44lbs\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eSize:\u003c\/b\u003e 7.96h x 5.38w x 0.65d\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eAward:\u003c\/b\u003e Books for a Better Life - Finalist","brand":"Janis A. Spring","offers":[{"title":"Paperback","offer_id":44044285411583,"sku":"9780060009311","price":16.99,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0662\/2982\/9887\/files\/img_4686dcc3-c352-44f9-8a93-b2f70c97f5dd.jpg?v=1684971971","url":"https:\/\/www.whiterainbookhouse.com\/products\/how-can-i-forgive-you-janis-a-spring-9780060009311","provider":"WR Book House","version":"1.0","type":"link"}