{"product_id":"how-to-avoid-deception-and-r-e-geffner-9781470536862","title":"How to Avoid Deception and Cheating in Relationships: The Ten-Minute Rule","description":"\u003cp\u003eHow to Avoid Deception and Cheating in Relationships\u003cbr\u003eCheating does not begin with a single decision. It begins with a system of small, predictable moments most people fail to recognize.\u003cbr\u003eIn this book, R. E. Geffner, MD, reveals the two forces within every person-commitment and desire-and explains why they often move in opposite directions. He shows that attraction is automatic, but actions are chosen, and that ordinary people slowly cross boundaries through attention, validation, secrecy, and rationalization.\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eStep by step, he explains how deception often develops gradually rather than all at once. It may begin with a look that lingers too long, a conversation that becomes more personal, or a message dismissed as \"harmless.\" Over time, emotional boundaries weaken, private communication increases, and emotional attachment begins to grow in secrecy. He reveals how opportunity, environment, unmet emotional needs, and ego can slowly overpower good intentions-and why many people recognize the warning signs long before they finally cross the line.\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eMore importantly, this book is a playbook for control. It teaches how to interrupt impulses in real time, create boundaries that actually work, manage digital temptation, and rebuild connection within the relationship so outside attention loses its power.\u003cbr\u003eThis is not about being perfect.\u003cbr\u003eIt is about becoming someone who does not cross the line-even when given the chance.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eAuthor:\u003c\/b\u003e R. E. Geffner\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eISBN-10:\u003c\/b\u003e 1470536862\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eISBN-13:\u003c\/b\u003e 9781470536862\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublisher:\u003c\/b\u003e Xlibris Us\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eLanguage:\u003c\/b\u003e English\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublished:\u003c\/b\u003e 05\/13\/2026\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePages:\u003c\/b\u003e 458\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eFormat:\u003c\/b\u003e Hardcover\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eWeight:\u003c\/b\u003e 1.72lbs\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eSize:\u003c\/b\u003e 9.00h x 6.00w x 1.19d","brand":"R. E. Geffner","offers":[{"title":"Hardcover","offer_id":48659878707455,"sku":"9781470536862","price":46.99,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"url":"https:\/\/www.whiterainbookhouse.com\/products\/how-to-avoid-deception-and-r-e-geffner-9781470536862","provider":"WR Book House","version":"1.0","type":"link"}