{"product_id":"infidelity-the-cheater-jeremy-abram-9798261879909","title":"Infidelity, The Cheater: Why I Did It. How It Happened. What It Cost.","description":"\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eInfidelity doesn't usually begin with desire.\u003cbr\u003eIt begins with silence.\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003ci\u003eInfidelity, The Cheater\u003c\/i\u003e is not a guidebook, a defense, or a story written for shock value. It is a reflective, confessional examination of how betrayal often unfolds quietly in the modern digital age - through avoidance, distraction, emotional withdrawal, and the small permissions people grant themselves long before anything becomes visible.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWritten from lived experience, this book does not attempt to excuse harm or offer easy conclusions. Instead, it traces the internal shifts that make infidelity possible: the conversations not had, the boundaries left undefined, the attention slowly redirected elsewhere.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThrough narrative reflection, real-world scenarios, and careful analysis, Jeremy Abram explores: \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cp\u003eHow emotional and digital infidelity often begins long before physical betrayal\u003c\/p\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cp\u003eThe subtle and obvious signs that connection is eroding\u003c\/p\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cp\u003eThe role modern technology plays in blurred boundaries and quiet secrecy\u003c\/p\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cp\u003eWhy avoidance - not malice - is often the true source of harm\u003c\/p\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cp\u003eWhat responsibility looks like after trust has been broken\u003c\/p\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cp\u003eHow moments of discomfort, when addressed early, can prevent irreversible damage\u003c\/p\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003cp\u003eThis book does not promise reconciliation.\u003cbr\u003eIt does not offer formulas for repair.\u003cbr\u003eIt does not position the author as a moral authority.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWhat it offers instead is clarity - earned through experience rather than theory.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThe hope behind this book is simple and restrained: that by speaking honestly about what went wrong, others might recognize similar patterns earlier in their own lives. That understanding might replace confusion. That attention might interrupt momentum. That choices might be made with greater awareness before silence hardens into secrecy.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThis is not a story about redemption.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIt is an accounting - written with care, accountability, and the belief that understanding, even when uncomfortable, can still be useful.\u003c\/p\u003eThis book is for: \u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cp\u003eThose who have been betrayed and want understanding without minimization\u003c\/p\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cp\u003eThose who recognize patterns in themselves and want to interrupt them\u003c\/p\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cp\u003eCouples trying to name what feels \"off\" before it becomes irreversible\u003c\/p\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cp\u003eReaders seeking honesty over performance-driven self-help\u003c\/p\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003cp\u003eIf you are looking for blame, this book will disappoint you.\u003cbr\u003eIf you are looking for clarity, it will meet you there.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eAuthor:\u003c\/b\u003e Jeremy Abram\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eISBN-13:\u003c\/b\u003e 9798261879909\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublisher:\u003c\/b\u003e Independently Published\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eLanguage:\u003c\/b\u003e English\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublished:\u003c\/b\u003e 12\/17\/2025\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePages:\u003c\/b\u003e 86\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eFormat:\u003c\/b\u003e Paperback\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eWeight:\u003c\/b\u003e 0.28lbs\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eSize:\u003c\/b\u003e 9.00h x 6.00w x 0.18d","brand":"Jeremy Abram","offers":[{"title":"Paperback","offer_id":48447192924415,"sku":"9798261879909","price":11.99,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0662\/2982\/9887\/files\/img_ae443cb1-f904-4902-b1b5-e27bc7e5e15f.jpg?v=1777229464","url":"https:\/\/www.whiterainbookhouse.com\/products\/infidelity-the-cheater-jeremy-abram-9798261879909","provider":"WR Book House","version":"1.0","type":"link"}