{"product_id":"its-not-me-its-you-nicole-lynn-morris-9798887971919","title":"It's Not Me, It's You: Take Their Labels Off","description":"\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e\u003cem\u003eIt's Not Me, It's You\u003c\/em\u003e is not just a book... It's a reckoning. A mirror. A permission slip.\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIn these deeply reflective, emotional, and candid pages, Nicole Morris invites readers to question the roles they've been praised for playing: the overachiever, the emotional caretaker, the peacemaker. With unflinching honesty, she examines the unspoken, and often unacknowledged harm those roles may have caused. She asks what happens when we, especially those of us who have been trained to shrink, finally accept the truth?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThrough precise, poetic storytelling, Nicole draws from her own journey through emotional neglect, trauma-bonded relationships, perfectionism, and the pressure to perform at all costs. She peels back layers of generational programming, people-pleasing, and silence to reveal the raw, often uncomfortable process of unbecoming everything she never was to learn, reclaim, and embrace the self that had been buried beneath masks and obligations.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWoven throughout are \"Pause \u0026amp; Reflect\" prompts - intentional invitations for readers to examine their own stories, the labels they've carried, and the truths they've hidden.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWritten for every person who has ever felt like they had to be everything for everyone but themselves, It's Not Me, It's You is equal parts memoir, manifesto, and invitation. It gives language to the confusion, grief, and liberation that comes with choosing yourself - out loud and without apology.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThis is not a story of who Nicole became. It's a story of what she had to unlearn to finally come home to herself ... and a powerful reminder that sometimes, the most radical act of love is saying: \u003cem\u003eit's not me, it's you\u003c\/em\u003e.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eAuthor:\u003c\/b\u003e Nicole Lynn Morris\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eISBN-13:\u003c\/b\u003e 9798887971919\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublisher:\u003c\/b\u003e Publish Your Purpose\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eLanguage:\u003c\/b\u003e English\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublished:\u003c\/b\u003e 05\/16\/2026\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePages:\u003c\/b\u003e 214\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eFormat:\u003c\/b\u003e Paperback\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eWeight:\u003c\/b\u003e 0.75lbs\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eSize:\u003c\/b\u003e 8.50h x 5.50w x 0.58d","brand":"Nicole Lynn Morris","offers":[{"title":"Paperback","offer_id":48588577997055,"sku":"9798887971919","price":22.95,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0662\/2982\/9887\/files\/img_35462733-3713-4f1f-ac3a-75685dce61cf.jpg?v=1780175768","url":"https:\/\/www.whiterainbookhouse.com\/products\/its-not-me-its-you-nicole-lynn-morris-9798887971919","provider":"WR Book House","version":"1.0","type":"link"}