{"product_id":"men-who-pay-for-intimacy-anna-lysandre-9798247333197","title":"Men Who Pay for Intimacy: Porn Addiction, Power, and Emotional Avoidance","description":"\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eMen Who Pay for Intimacy\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003ci\u003ePorn Addiction, Power, and Emotional Avoidance\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eby Anna Lysandre\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWhy does a man choose to pay for intimacy instead of building it?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThis book is not about sex.\u003cbr\u003eIt is about \u003cb\u003eavoidance\u003c\/b\u003e.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIn \u003ci\u003eMen Who Pay for Intimacy\u003c\/i\u003e, Anna Lysandre explores a modern and uncomfortable reality: men who rely on porn, escorts, and transactional encounters not for pleasure-but to escape vulnerability, emotional exposure, and mutual connection.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThrough sharp psychological insight and cultural observation, this book reveals how porn addiction reshapes desire, how money replaces intimacy, and why some men prefer access over reciprocity. These men are not always lonely, awkward, or incapable of relationships. Many are educated, functional, and socially integrated-yet emotionally unavailable.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eInside this book, you'll discover: \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cp\u003eWhy porn conditions the brain for escalation, not connection\u003c\/p\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cp\u003eThe psychological profiles of men who pay for sexual access\u003c\/p\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cp\u003eHow power and money substitute for desirability\u003c\/p\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cp\u003eWhy transactional intimacy erodes emotional capacity\u003c\/p\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cp\u003eWhy these patterns rarely change without consequence\u003c\/p\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cp\u003eWhy women often feel lonely even while being chosen\u003c\/p\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003cp\u003eThis is not a moral argument.\u003cbr\u003eIt is a psychological analysis.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWritten in clear, accessible language, \u003ci\u003eMen Who Pay for Intimacy\u003c\/i\u003e helps readers recognize patterns they've sensed but struggled to name-patterns that quietly shape modern dating, relationships, and emotional disconnection.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThis book is for women who want clarity instead of confusion, and for men willing to confront the cost of avoidance.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eThis book is not about all men.\u003cbr\u003eIt is about patterns-and patterns repeat for a reason.\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eProvocative, calm, and deeply relatable, \u003ci\u003eMen Who Pay for Intimacy\u003c\/i\u003e offers a new lens on desire, power, and intimacy in the digital age-without judgment, and without illusions.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIf you've ever wondered why intimacy feels absent even when attraction is present, this book gives you the answer.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eAuthor:\u003c\/b\u003e Anna Lysandre\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eISBN-13:\u003c\/b\u003e 9798247333197\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublisher:\u003c\/b\u003e Independently Published\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eLanguage:\u003c\/b\u003e English\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublished:\u003c\/b\u003e 02\/07\/2026\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePages:\u003c\/b\u003e 64\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eFormat:\u003c\/b\u003e Paperback\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eWeight:\u003c\/b\u003e 0.22lbs\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eSize:\u003c\/b\u003e 9.00h x 6.00w x 0.13d","brand":"Anna Lysandre","offers":[{"title":"Paperback","offer_id":48588427395327,"sku":"9798247333197","price":14.99,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"url":"https:\/\/www.whiterainbookhouse.com\/products\/men-who-pay-for-intimacy-anna-lysandre-9798247333197","provider":"WR Book House","version":"1.0","type":"link"}