{"product_id":"my-marriage-is-almost-dead-carolyn-o-klassen-9781775175117","title":"My Marriage is Almost Dead and My Husband Doesn't Get It: Having hard conversations to save your troubled relationship and begin couple counselling","description":"A startling title that you don't have to hide from your husband-in fact, share it with him as a critical investment in your marriage.!Here's the deal: \u003cb\u003e70% of divorces are initiated by women. That number jumps to 90% for college educated women. \u003c\/b\u003eThis is the book that addresses this gender disparity and helps husbands and wives answer the question: How can you reduce the odds that the wife in the relationship will be so unhappy she needs to leave the relationship?Apparently, \u003cb\u003ewives often have a more accurate pulse on the marriage\u003c\/b\u003e, and know when it's time to \u003ci\u003epull the plug\u003c\/i\u003e on it. What if women used that wisdom to create positive change in marriage, \u003ci\u003e long before divorce becomes the best idea?\u003c\/i\u003e \u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003eThis book is for \u003ci\u003eboth\u003c\/i\u003e of you, \u003ci\u003eto make your marriage better for each \u003c\/i\u003eof you. A \u003cb\u003ewhimsical, very-humanly-real\u003c\/b\u003e approach for a couple whose relationship quality is going down, maybe even \u003ci\u003ecircling the drain\u003c\/i\u003e.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eThe author has seen this dynamic hundreds of times in a successful private therapy practice over 2 1\/2 decades. This is the book that helps couples understand the dangerous dynamic of a resentful, over functioning wife and a good man who is a lousy husband.\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eIt's not working for her now--and if she leaves, if won't be working for either of them.\u003c\/i\u003e \u003c\/b\u003eWhy wouldn't he want to know some hard news that she has been avoiding telling him? \u003cb\u003eIs it worth hurting his feelings if he gets to remain in a marriage he wants and loves?\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003eThis is \u003ci\u003e\u003cb\u003enot\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e about \u003ci\u003ehusband bashing\u003c\/i\u003e--it's about \u003ci\u003erelationship improving.\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eMy Marriage is almost Dead\u003c\/i\u003e \u003c\/b\u003ewill help make a good marriage become great, a struggling marriage be better, and perhaps, rescue a marriage on the rocks. It's a book to \u003cb\u003ecreate\u003c\/b\u003e \u003cb\u003econversations\u003c\/b\u003e with your husband that will move your relationship from poor or mediocre to wonderful and life-giving.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWhen you find yourself in the situation where: \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eyou know you love him\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ehe's fundamentally a great guy\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ebut you're struggling with the distance between you and...\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eit seems he just doesn't understand how hard it is for you...then\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eMy Marriage is Almost Dead and My Husband Doesn't Get It\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e is the book that will give you some ability to address the situation.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eYou may not be in trouble yet, but the pattern has been set--and now, unless something changes, it may be only a matter of time before the relationship is just a shell...looks good on the outside, but empty on the inside. \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eCarolyn Klassen, is a popular writer, speaker (including TEDx) and sought after therapist with 23 years of experience. This book is written out of her many years of work with couples in therapy. She writes clearly and poignantly, in a very real and human way about the pain women experience when their husbands hear their concerns without really \"getting it\". \u003ci\u003eMy Marriage is Almost Dead and My Husband Doesn't Get It\u003c\/i\u003e will support and encourage you to take steps to create shifts that simply cannot be ignored.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eKlassen gives clear understanding, practical tools, and deep compassion needed to find the motivation to say, \"I matter in this marriage too, and it absolutely needs to start working better for me\". Klassen writes to wives who know their marriage is deteriorating, and their husbands are oblivious. There are a lot of guys that are fantastic men, but don't realize that they are actually not-so-great in being husbands.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003ePractical, inspiring, and supportive, this book creates a different space to ensure that you can make positive changes in your marriage. Ironically, and also beautifully--when you are happier, your husband will be too!\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eAuthor:\u003c\/b\u003e Carolyn O. 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