{"product_id":"no-fats-no-femmes-no-philip-garcia-9798297246249","title":"No Fats, No Femmes, No Future: How the Gay Dating Scene Learned to Hate Itself - and How We Unlearn It","description":"\u003cb\u003eIn \u003ci\u003eNo Fats, No Femmes, No Future\u003c\/i\u003e, Philip Garcia strips away the polite language of \"preferences\" to expose the quiet prejudices shaping gay dating culture.\u003c\/b\u003e From the racial filters on apps to the unspoken body hierarchies of nightlife, this is an unflinching portrait of how exclusion - even when dressed as taste - erodes community and connection.\u003cbr\u003eGarcia draws on lived experience, cultural critique, and compassionate challenge to explore: \u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eHow shame shapes what - and who - we desire\u003cbr\u003e \u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWhy femmephobia still thrives inside queer spaces\u003cbr\u003e \u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eThe impact of body worship and body hate\u003cbr\u003e \u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eHow racial bias hides in \"just my type\"\u003cbr\u003e \u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ePractical steps to unlearn attraction scripts and widen your lens\u003cbr\u003e \u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eBuilding relationships based on soul connection, not surface appeal\u003cbr\u003e \u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003eBoth a mirror and a map, this book doesn't just diagnose the problem - it offers a vision for a future where love is expansive, inclusive, and impossible to ration. \u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003eIf you've ever felt invisible in your own community, been told you're \"not someone's type\" without a second glance, or simply want to be part of a culture that values connection over conformity, \u003ci\u003eNo Fats, No Femmes, No Future\u003c\/i\u003e is your invitation to start.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eAuthor:\u003c\/b\u003e Philip Garcia\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eISBN-13:\u003c\/b\u003e 9798297246249\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublisher:\u003c\/b\u003e Independently Published\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eLanguage:\u003c\/b\u003e English\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublished:\u003c\/b\u003e 08\/09\/2025\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePages:\u003c\/b\u003e 78\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eFormat:\u003c\/b\u003e Paperback\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eWeight:\u003c\/b\u003e 0.22lbs\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eSize:\u003c\/b\u003e 8.50h x 5.50w x 0.16d","brand":"Philip Garcia","offers":[{"title":"Paperback","offer_id":48997086789887,"sku":"9798297246249","price":9.99,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"url":"https:\/\/www.whiterainbookhouse.com\/products\/no-fats-no-femmes-no-philip-garcia-9798297246249","provider":"WR Book House","version":"1.0","type":"link"}