{"product_id":"nobody-elses-coat-kris-wilson-slack-9780965451888","title":"Nobody Else's Coat: How to Lead and Live as Yourself","description":"\u003cp\u003eYou have been handed a lot of coats. This book helps you find the one that is actually yours.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eEvery day, someone hands you a picture of who to be. Your family has one. Your friends have another. School, coaches, and the endless feed on your phone keep adding more. Most of those coats were cut for someone else, and wearing them is exhausting in a way that is hard to name.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThis is a book for anyone between fourteen and seventeen who has ever felt like they were performing a version of themselves that wins approval but quietly drains them. It is not a lecture, and it is not a list of habits to fix you, because you are not broken. It is an honest walk through one simple idea: you cannot lead anything well, a group project, a team, a friendship, your own next step, from inside someone else's skin.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eDrawing on decades of coaching work and the real science of how identity forms, Nobody Else's Coat helps you notice the coat you are wearing, take your own measurements, and start sewing one that fits. Along the way you will name what you are made of, learn to tell your own voice from the borrowed ones, give your fears a face, and choose what comes next from who you actually are, not who you have been told to be. It is the third book in Kris Wilson-Slack's series on authentic leadership.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eFor the parent, teacher, or mentor reading over a teen's shoulder: this is a book that treats young people as the capable, thoughtful people they are becoming, and meets the hard parts, comparison, anxiety, the pressure to fit in, with honesty rather than easy answers.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eNow go be yourself, out loud, where it counts.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eAuthor:\u003c\/b\u003e Kris Wilson-Slack\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eISBN-10:\u003c\/b\u003e 0965451887\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eISBN-13:\u003c\/b\u003e 9780965451888\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublisher:\u003c\/b\u003e Alternate Way Press\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eLanguage:\u003c\/b\u003e English\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublished:\u003c\/b\u003e 10\/01\/2026\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePages:\u003c\/b\u003e 112\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eFormat:\u003c\/b\u003e Paperback\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eWeight:\u003c\/b\u003e 0.35lbs\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eSize:\u003c\/b\u003e 9.00h x 6.00w x 0.23d","brand":"Kris Wilson-Slack","offers":[{"title":"Paperback","offer_id":49097576939775,"sku":"9780965451888","price":18.99,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"url":"https:\/\/www.whiterainbookhouse.com\/products\/nobody-elses-coat-kris-wilson-slack-9780965451888","provider":"WR Book House","version":"1.0","type":"link"}