{"product_id":"raised-by-wolves-tamed-by-signal-fire-press-9798292649328","title":"Raised by Wolves, Tamed by Shame: Unlearning the Rules That Quiet Strong Women: Overcome Generational Shame, Emotional Obedience, and the Hidden Costs","description":"\u003cp\u003eFor every strong woman who was told to tone it down, smile more, stay agreeable, and be less \"difficult\"-this book dismantles the silent rules that shaped you. \u003ci\u003eRaised by Wolves, Tamed by Shame\u003c\/i\u003e is not about healing through softness or waiting for permission. It's about unlearning the deeply embedded scripts that trained capable women to disappear in plain sight.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThrough 35 ruthlessly clear chapters, this book exposes how shame was systemically used to tame smart, intense, outspoken girls into emotionally self-policing adults. It unpacks the generational transmission of silence, the betrayal buried inside perfectionism, and the psychic cost of always being \"the strong one.\" It names the cultural tactics-like toxic praise, apology conditioning, and the myth of the cool girl-that convinced ambitious women to shrink themselves for approval.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eBut it doesn't stop at analysis. With clean, deliberate language and no fluff, each chapter guides the reader back toward something they were never supposed to reclaim: instinct, voice, agency, and rest. Whether you're untangling your apology reflex, grieving the life you could have lived, or learning to trust your anger again, this book offers a system of unlearning-one precise, unsentimental step at a time.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eYou won't find anecdotes. You won't be told to lean in. And you won't be asked to fix yourself. Because you're not broken. You were just trained to be digestible. It's time to untrain. Loudly.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eAuthor:\u003c\/b\u003e Signal Fire Press\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eISBN-13:\u003c\/b\u003e 9798292649328\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublisher:\u003c\/b\u003e Independently Published\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eLanguage:\u003c\/b\u003e English\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublished:\u003c\/b\u003e 07\/15\/2025\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePages:\u003c\/b\u003e 148\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eFormat:\u003c\/b\u003e Paperback\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eWeight:\u003c\/b\u003e 0.34lbs\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eSize:\u003c\/b\u003e 8.00h x 5.00w x 0.32d","brand":"Signal Fire Press","offers":[{"title":"Paperback","offer_id":47965955195135,"sku":"9798292649328","price":13.99,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0662\/2982\/9887\/files\/img_8199e4a9-67a0-4329-a447-27ad8a71c901.jpg?v=1767285955","url":"https:\/\/www.whiterainbookhouse.com\/products\/raised-by-wolves-tamed-by-signal-fire-press-9798292649328","provider":"WR Book House","version":"1.0","type":"link"}