{"product_id":"sober-secure-nina-pick-9798889843740","title":"Sober Secure: An Attachment-Based Guide to Dating, Sex, and Love in Recovery","description":"\u003cb\u003eAn attachment-first path to lasting recovery: build the love, safety, and belonging that keep you sober--and help your relationships thrive \u003c\/b\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003ePractical, body-based tools for dating, intimacy, and partnership in sobriety \u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003eRecovery isn't just about staying sober--it's about learning to love and be loved securely. \u003ci\u003eSober Secure\u003c\/i\u003e reframes recovery through attachment, giving people in sobriety practical tools to heal early relational wounds, regulate the nervous system, and create the connections that sustain a joyful, durable recovery. \u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003eNina Pick, MA, integrative somatic counselor and author of \u003ci\u003eThe Mind-Body Guide to the Twelve Steps\u003c\/i\u003e, draws on attachment science, polyvagal theory, and somatic therapy--while honoring the strengths of Twelve Step communities. She offers clear language, vivid examples, and step-by-step practices for real life: dating and consent, attuned touch and intimacy, conflict and repair, and long-term partnership--on both Twelve Step and non-Twelve Step paths. \u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003eYou'll learn to: \u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eSpot your attachment patterns in sobriety and move toward earned secure attachment.\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eRegulate your nervous system with simple somatic tools that make connection feel safer.\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eTrade isolating self-reliance for healthy interdependence without losing your agency.\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eDate with pacing and clarity; navigate sex and consent with care; deepen partnership.\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eTransform chronic shame and \"not enough\" beliefs that fuel isolation and relapse risk.\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003cbr\u003eWarm, accessible, and immediately useful, \u003ci\u003eSober Secure\u003c\/i\u003e is a loving companion for building the safety, belonging, and embodied presence that let your sobriety--and your life--fully bloom.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eAuthor:\u003c\/b\u003e Nina Pick\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eISBN-13:\u003c\/b\u003e 9798889843740\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublisher:\u003c\/b\u003e North Atlantic Books\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eLanguage:\u003c\/b\u003e English\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublished:\u003c\/b\u003e 08\/11\/2026\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePages:\u003c\/b\u003e 288\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eFormat:\u003c\/b\u003e Paperback\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eWeight:\u003c\/b\u003e 0.81lbs","brand":"Nina Pick","offers":[{"title":"Paperback","offer_id":47966012440831,"sku":"9798889843740","price":21.95,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":false}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0662\/2982\/9887\/files\/img_a799e7a3-bfb4-45f6-904d-5aae67beda6d.jpg?v=1767286319","url":"https:\/\/www.whiterainbookhouse.com\/products\/sober-secure-nina-pick-9798889843740","provider":"WR Book House","version":"1.0","type":"link"}