{"product_id":"spiked-by-the-system-nicola-anne-9781764451710","title":"Spiked by the System: Comfort is one hell of a sedative.","description":"\u003cp\u003eThis book is a direct, unflinching invitation for men into the conversations women have once they're safely out of earshot. It isn't an accusation. It's a guided tour through the invisible rules, unspoken expectations, and systemic imbalances that shape women's daily lives. With a voice that is equal parts warm, candid, and sharply observant, the author reveals how privilege, communication gaps, the mental load, and restrictive masculinity collide in modern relationships.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eDrawing on personal experience, cultural analysis, and relatable examples, the book dismantles defensiveness, reframes common misunderstandings, and makes visible the unseen labour women carry. It explains not only what these dynamics are, but why they persist, how they impact intimacy and connection, and what awareness can make possible.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eAcross fourteen chapters, the reader is taken from foundational concepts of \u003cstrong\u003eprivilege\u003c\/strong\u003e, through behavioural patterns like weaponised incompetence and \u003cstrong\u003e#NotAllMen \u003c\/strong\u003edefensiveness, into deeper explorations of emotional work, beauty standards, and communication breakdowns. The book also examines how traditional masculinity harms men themselves, and closes with a practical, achievable blueprint for everyday allyship and raising the next generation with healthier expectations.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eBalancing empathy with clarity, this book offers men a way in rather than a way out - showing that awareness is not about blame, but about building relationships rooted in safety, equality, and genuine partnership. It is both a mirror and a map, inviting the reader to see the system clearly, and then choose differently.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eAuthor:\u003c\/b\u003e Nicola Anne\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eISBN-10:\u003c\/b\u003e 1764451716\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eISBN-13:\u003c\/b\u003e 9781764451710\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublisher:\u003c\/b\u003e N.a\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eLanguage:\u003c\/b\u003e English\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublished:\u003c\/b\u003e 12\/16\/2025\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePages:\u003c\/b\u003e 156\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eFormat:\u003c\/b\u003e Paperback\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eWeight:\u003c\/b\u003e 0.35lbs\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eSize:\u003c\/b\u003e 8.00h x 5.00w x 0.33d","brand":"Nicola Anne","offers":[{"title":"Paperback","offer_id":48443126546687,"sku":"9781764451710","price":19.99,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0662\/2982\/9887\/files\/img_078c6546-58f2-42b9-ab3f-47ee56693bdb.jpg?v=1777202020","url":"https:\/\/www.whiterainbookhouse.com\/products\/spiked-by-the-system-nicola-anne-9781764451710","provider":"WR Book House","version":"1.0","type":"link"}