{"product_id":"stand-up-doormat-gary-dejidas-9781490913858","title":"Stand Up Doormat: A Relationship Survival Guide For \"The Nice Guy\" (Understanding Women, Love, Spirituality \u0026 Ourselves)","description":"Tired of being taken advantage of for being too nice? You don't have to turn into a jerk, but you will have to change. It took me many years and tons of mistakes to figure out what I was doing wrong. Call \"Stand Up, Doormat\" an instruction manual for Nice Guys or whatever, just don't make the same stupid mistakes that I did. Please. Awesome Chicks want a \"bad boy\" about as badly as they want their next car to be a 1988 Corolla. Hot chicks wanting to date a jerk is a total myth. Every woman wants to date a nice guy. But no woman wants a doormat. Huge difference. Doormats equal no respect, and get walked all over. After I finished writing this Nice Guy Relationship Survival Guide, a thought occurred to me. Most guys do not like to read. Being a guy myself, I know the difficulty in getting myself to read anything besides a restaurant menu. Even then I prefer numbered pictures. There are so many things I'd rather be doing, watching, taking apart, I mean fixing... instead of reading. Even reading this description while I type it is a bit challenging. Then it hit me. I'll just include a perfectly cooked steak with each Kindle ebook purchase. Guys love a quality cut of meat. Download-a-steak links, with medium rare, medium, and medium well options. (A noodle quiche link for my vegetarian buyers). But this Kindle download format is throwing a major wrench in my game. No matter how fast the download speed, I can't keep the steak hot. And nobody will be encouraged to buy this book if it comes with a cold T-Bone. Surprisingly, the noodle quiche downloads perfectly every time. Tasty gimmicks aside... here's the deal. I spent 1000 days in relationship hell with women, before I finally found my spine. Like so many of us Nice Guys out there, I thought the answer was trying to make \"them\" happy. Being \"nice\" by sacrificing my needs for theirs. Well, after an extended stay in Motel Inferno, I can assure you... that isn't the answer. We find the answer the moment we shift our focus off of \"them,\" and focus i-n-w-a-r-d, taking responsibility for our choices, lives and relationships. \"Stand Up, Doormat\" is one part Personal Growth \u0026amp; Spirituality, one part Understanding Women, and one part Learning What Women Really Want (And Really REALLY Don't Want). The chapters are also arranged like steps, in the same order I found most beneficial in my own journey from being a wimp with women, growing a set and ending my suffering, to finally getting out of relationship hell for good. Drama-free, awesome relationships are possible. Read these pages, and the they will come. The first 10 pages or so of the book are included as a free preview. Please CLICK on the picture of the book cover to open the preview. If you enjoy those opening pages, I know you'll enjoy the entire book.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eAuthor:\u003c\/b\u003e Gary Dejidas\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eISBN-10:\u003c\/b\u003e 1490913858\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eISBN-13:\u003c\/b\u003e 9781490913858\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublisher:\u003c\/b\u003e Createspace Independent Publishing Platform\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eLanguage:\u003c\/b\u003e English\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublished:\u003c\/b\u003e 09\/20\/2013\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePages:\u003c\/b\u003e 180\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eFormat:\u003c\/b\u003e Paperback\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eWeight:\u003c\/b\u003e 0.47lbs\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eSize:\u003c\/b\u003e 8.50h x 5.50w x 0.38d","brand":"Gary Dejidas","offers":[{"title":"Paperback","offer_id":44052852637951,"sku":"9781490913858","price":10.0,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0662\/2982\/9887\/files\/img_3426a686-3b1e-4aa2-90d6-9cb2403a01b0.jpg?v=1685021079","url":"https:\/\/www.whiterainbookhouse.com\/products\/stand-up-doormat-gary-dejidas-9781490913858","provider":"WR Book House","version":"1.0","type":"link"}