{"product_id":"the-mindset-of-small-talk-lana-otoya-9781720433569","title":"The Mindset of Small Talk: How Mastering Small Talk Has Nothing to Do with Coming Up with Things to Say","description":"WOULDN'T IT BE NICE TO CHAT WITH ANYBODY WITHOUT HAVING TO COME UP WITH THINGS TO SAY?One of the nicest ladies I ever met was a school teacher. I was chatting with her on a film set once because we were using her daughter in a commercial. This lady was (and I repeat) one of the nicest people I have ever met. I think we chatted for about thirty minutes and then I never saw her again.THIRTY MINUTES. I seriously thought that I could trust this lady with all my deepest darkest secrets. That I could call her up one day and ask her to go for coffee and she'd say yes.How could this lady make such an impression on me in such a short amount of time? Well she had mastered the two keys you need to be a perfect small talker. These two things are revealed in my book and once you know them, everything gets so much easier. My name is Lana and I am a relationship and self care blogger. Before I started a blog, I was a seriously introverted University student trying to get through film school without having to small talk with my classmates at lunch. Little did I know back then, the film industry is all about networking and creating relationships with people you barely know. Once I started actually working in film, I was FORCED into learning how to small talk and how to get along with people. I was able to do this by observing others and stealing their techeniques. People like that lovely high school teacher became my role models, I needed to do what they were doing. After years of observation, I realized that all master small talkers have a few things in common but the biggest things are the two keys that were shown to me so elgantly by that school teacher. Once I had mastered those, no small talk conversation was a nightmare anymore. In fact, I started to enjoy them. MY BOOK WILL SHOW YOU: - The two keys you need to master small talk, and neither of them involve conversation starters- How to shift your perspective on small talk so that it takes the pressure off- The reason why small talk is not about entertaining others but is actually for you- The difference between a good conversation starter and a bad one- Small talk for people with social anxiety- Small talk for introverts- Small talk for dating, making friends and networking- How to Improve your self esteem- How to help in building confidence- How to never fear the dreaded small talk conversation EVER AGAIN If you've read this far, you're already 500 words into transforming yourself into a real people person.Don't hesitate to make this simple yet super effective change in your life. Download my book and INSTANTLY start improving your conversation skills today\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eAuthor:\u003c\/b\u003e Lana Otoya\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eISBN-10:\u003c\/b\u003e 1720433569\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eISBN-13:\u003c\/b\u003e 9781720433569\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublisher:\u003c\/b\u003e Createspace Independent Publishing Platform\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eLanguage:\u003c\/b\u003e English\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublished:\u003c\/b\u003e 05\/26\/2018\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePages:\u003c\/b\u003e 74\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eFormat:\u003c\/b\u003e Paperback\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eWeight:\u003c\/b\u003e 0.27lbs\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eSize:\u003c\/b\u003e 9.00h x 6.00w x 0.18d","brand":"Lana Otoya","offers":[{"title":"Paperback","offer_id":44125236756735,"sku":"9781720433569","price":11.85,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0662\/2982\/9887\/files\/img_5d743c8f-9fe3-4e56-bb5b-d92463ba440b.jpg?v=1687441454","url":"https:\/\/www.whiterainbookhouse.com\/products\/the-mindset-of-small-talk-lana-otoya-9781720433569","provider":"WR Book House","version":"1.0","type":"link"}