{"product_id":"theyre-watching-reinhard-chavez-9798197719096","title":"They're Watching: How to Raise the Child You Actually Want","description":"\u003cp\u003eYou don't raise a loving child by demanding love. You don't raise an honest child by punishing honesty. And you don't raise a respectful child by being the one person in the house who doesn't have to be respectful.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eChildren are mirrors. What they reflect back isn't who you told them to be - it's who they watched you be.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003ci\u003eThey're Watching\u003c\/i\u003e is a parenting book built on one uncomfortable truth: the most powerful thing you do as a parent has nothing to do with your rules, your lectures, or your discipline strategies. It has everything to do with your behavior in the ordinary, unguarded moments of an ordinary day.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWritten by Reinhard Chavez - a high school English language teacher with fourteen years of watching what parenting looks like from the other side of the classroom - this book takes six simple principles and stays with each one honestly, practically, and without softening the parts that are hard to hear.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eSix chapters. Six principles. One child watching all of it.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWant a \u003cb\u003eloving\u003c\/b\u003e child? Hug them when they make mistakes.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWant a \u003cb\u003econfident\u003c\/b\u003e child? Value the effort, not just the outcome.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWant an \u003cb\u003eopen\u003c\/b\u003e child? Listen without judgment.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWant a \u003cb\u003ecalm\u003c\/b\u003e child? Calm yourself first.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWant an \u003cb\u003ehonest\u003c\/b\u003e child? Appreciate their courage to admit mistakes.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWant a \u003cb\u003erespectful\u003c\/b\u003e child? Be the example.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003cp\u003eThis is not a book about perfect parenting. It's a book about present parenting - the kind that actually shapes who your child becomes. Each chapter includes real-life scenarios, practical tips, and the kind of honesty that most parenting books are too polished to offer.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eYou already know what kind of child you want to raise. This book asks a harder question: \u003ci\u003eAre you showing them how?\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eAuthor:\u003c\/b\u003e Reinhard Chavez\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eISBN-13:\u003c\/b\u003e 9798197719096\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublisher:\u003c\/b\u003e Independently Published\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eLanguage:\u003c\/b\u003e English\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublished:\u003c\/b\u003e 05\/20\/2026\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePages:\u003c\/b\u003e 48\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eFormat:\u003c\/b\u003e Paperback\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eWeight:\u003c\/b\u003e 0.12lbs\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eSize:\u003c\/b\u003e 8.00h x 5.00w x 0.13d","brand":"Reinhard Chavez","offers":[{"title":"Paperback","offer_id":48743227359487,"sku":"9798197719096","price":9.99,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"url":"https:\/\/www.whiterainbookhouse.com\/products\/theyre-watching-reinhard-chavez-9798197719096","provider":"WR Book House","version":"1.0","type":"link"}