{"product_id":"three-positions-butterflyman-9798902170105","title":"Three Positions: Surfing Life, Business, and Civilization","description":"\u003cp\u003eConflicts in life, work, and even society often begin with an attachment to \u003cb\u003eone's own position\u003c\/b\u003e.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWhen people refuse to give in to one another, emotions continue to expand, facts become obscured, and other voices slowly disappear. What begins as disagreement gradually turns into deadlock.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThis book proposes a way forward: \u003cb\u003ethree positions\u003c\/b\u003e.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eRather than silencing yourself or surrendering to others, \u003ci\u003eThree Positions\u003c\/i\u003e teaches you how to calmly stand in a \u003cb\u003eneutral position\u003c\/b\u003e-a place where facts can be seen clearly and truth can emerge without fear. From there, you learn to enter opposing positions, not to fight them, but to understand the hidden fears, needs, and demands beneath the surface.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eLike surfing, movement matters.\u003cbr\u003eBy shifting fluidly between the three positions, confrontation can transform into reconciliation, and tension can give rise to creativity.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIn families, conflict between partners can evolve into mutual understanding.\u003cbr\u003eIn workplaces, managers and employees can rediscover common interests.\u003cbr\u003eIn society, division itself can become an opportunity for new consensus and new systems to be born.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIn conflict, the seeds of harmony are often already present.\u003cbr\u003eWhat allows them to grow is not patience or silence-but the courage to stand on facts, protect one's rights, and truly listen to the voices of others.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThis book is dedicated to all those who wish to transcend anger and division-\u003cbr\u003eand to those who seek a shared future.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cbr\u003e⭐ \u003cb\u003e5 REASONS WHY YOU SHOULD READ THIS BOOK\u003c\/b\u003e\u003col\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eA simple framework you can use immediately\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003eThe concept of \"three positions\" is intuitive, practical, and applicable to real-life conflicts-personal, professional, and societal.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eNot theory, but perspective transformation\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003eThis book doesn't tell you what to think. It changes \u003ci\u003ehow\u003c\/i\u003e you see conflict, giving you clarity instead of reaction.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eUseful for relationships, leadership, and decision-making\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003eWhether in family life, business, or social issues, the framework helps reduce tension and uncover common ground.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eA calm alternative to polarization and extremes\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003eIn a divided world, this book offers a grounded way to engage disagreement without anger or surrender.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eShort, profound, and rereadable\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003eDesigned to be reflected on, not rushed-each reading reveals deeper insight as your own position evolves.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ol\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eAuthor:\u003c\/b\u003e Butterflyman\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eISBN-13:\u003c\/b\u003e 9798902170105\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublisher:\u003c\/b\u003e Butterflyman Publishing LLC\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eLanguage:\u003c\/b\u003e English\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublished:\u003c\/b\u003e 12\/21\/2025\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePages:\u003c\/b\u003e 140\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eFormat:\u003c\/b\u003e Paperback\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eWeight:\u003c\/b\u003e 0.75lbs\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eSize:\u003c\/b\u003e 11.00h x 8.50w x 0.30d","brand":"Butterflyman","offers":[{"title":"Paperback","offer_id":48443098923263,"sku":"9798902170105","price":12.99,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0662\/2982\/9887\/files\/img_877165fe-430b-4cd0-8ed6-ff1f35f414a5.jpg?v=1777201847","url":"https:\/\/www.whiterainbookhouse.com\/products\/three-positions-butterflyman-9798902170105","provider":"WR Book House","version":"1.0","type":"link"}