{"product_id":"you-cant-afford-me-kia-s-howard-9798295557774","title":"You Can't Afford Me: Right Now, I'm Not There: Right Now, Im Not There","description":"\u003cp\u003eRight Now, I'm Not There is not about heartbreak - it's about clarity.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThis book speaks to the moment many women quietly reach: the point where explaining, over-giving, and negotiating basic respect no longer feels worth the cost. It explores why women emotionally withdraw, not because they are bitter or broken, but because they have finally seen the pattern.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThrough direct commentary and unfiltered truth, this book examines: \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWhy men often confuse access with effort\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eHow emotional labor is normalized and dismissed\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWhy women stop explaining instead of continuing to argue\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eThe imbalance in modern relationships that benefits men more than women\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThis is not a guide on how to fix men.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIt is an explanation of why women stop trying to.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eRight Now, I'm Not There gives language to what many women feel but rarely say aloud - the moment they choose peace over performance, distance over depletion, and self-respect over availability.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThis book is for women who are no longer angry - just done.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eAuthor:\u003c\/b\u003e Kia S. Howard\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eISBN-13:\u003c\/b\u003e 9798295557774\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublisher:\u003c\/b\u003e Self-Help\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eLanguage:\u003c\/b\u003e English\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublished:\u003c\/b\u003e 01\/10\/2026\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePages:\u003c\/b\u003e 102\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eFormat:\u003c\/b\u003e Paperback\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eWeight:\u003c\/b\u003e 0.24lbs\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eSize:\u003c\/b\u003e 7.81h x 5.06w x 0.21d","brand":"Kia S. Howard","offers":[{"title":"Paperback","offer_id":48450453274879,"sku":"9798295557774","price":17.99,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0662\/2982\/9887\/files\/img_8181c1be-d6a3-41a7-8237-af08be8df43e.jpg?v=1777267849","url":"https:\/\/www.whiterainbookhouse.com\/products\/you-cant-afford-me-kia-s-howard-9798295557774","provider":"WR Book House","version":"1.0","type":"link"}