Affair Repair: Proven Strategies to Heal, Forgive, and Rebuild Love after Infidelity (Paperback) (ISBN-13: 9798992071504)

The discovery of an affair blows up the world as you once knew it. The one who was hurt and the one who was caught begin scrambling for safety. Some people run, some rage, others shut down. The chaos is real, and so is the pain. Affair Repair, unlike other books, offers a clear, compassionate guide for the betrayed and the betrayer in the aftermath of infidelity.

If you want to know how to stop the pain that feels unbearable, what the betrayer is thinking, and where to go next, this book offers a direct, steady way forward. You will learn to navigate where you are at on the map of affair repair and marriage transformation and be given guidance on how to move forward through each phase. Together, you evolve from the betrayed/betrayer to healing/repairing partners. Whether the affair was in the past or newly discovered, you can overcome. You and your partner's paths are separate yet intertwined. Understanding both sides gives you an edge in affair recovery.

Drawing on decades of clinical experience, marriage and family therapist Amanda Deverich offers both partners a map through the crisis, post-traumatic stress, disenfranchised grief, and difficult discussions. She shows you the shortcuts, common pitfalls, and proven strategies of couples who have traveled this road before. Let their experience and her expertise shorten your journey.

You don't have to divorce.

You don't have to stay together, either.

But if you're ready to address the hurt, Affair Repair will guide you from shock and confusion toward clarity, stability, and if you choose, to a transformed relationship grounded in honesty, intimacy, and genuine connection.