Born Submissive: I Was Raised in a BDSM Household (Paperback) (ISBN-13: 9781771435116)

Deanna Hankel is the daughter of a Dominant and a submissive. Much of her childhood, however, took place inside a sadist's household. It was there that the power exchange between her mother and stepfather permeated the air and left a permanent impression on Deanna. She grew up and met a Dominant of her own who showed her what she already knew--that she was born submissive.

Born Submissive takes you inside both a Master/slave and a D/s household. There you'll see what it's like to be both a slave and a submissive. You'll roam the halls of a sadist's house, where a Doberman Pinscher is always on guard. You'll also roam the halls of a highly particular Dominant's house and experience what it's like to have D/s sex on his wall. The purpose is to guide you through making an informed choice about the type of BDSM relationship that you really want.

Inside you'll get tips on what kind of service notebook to buy, how to communicate effectively through journaling, and why you should buy cheap lingerie! All of the basic elements of BDSM will be covered, as well as some of the advanced ones. There are even chapters on sadist and Dominant bosses because, as it turns out, true submissiveness transcends the bedroom.