Desi 2.0: My Family's American Dream and the Cost of Never Being Enough (Hardcover) (ISBN-13: 9798891385016)

"Desi 2.0 places the South Asian experience squarely within the great American tradition of reinvention. With wit and courage, Garg offers a portrait--echoing Terkel, Algren, and Bellow--of the trials, contradictions, and quiet triumphs of finding one's way on American soil."

--Sudhir Venkatesh, New York Times bestselling author of Gang Leader for a Day

What if the price of achieving everything was never feeling worthy of anything?

Desi 2.0 is a powerful journey through the crushing expectations placed on children of South Asian immigrants, the seductive danger of "achievement addiction," and a transformative path to discovering you were always enough.

Sunil "Sonny" Garg grew up immersed in the archetypal Desi-American Dream: excel in high school, attend an Ivy League university, become a doctor or lawyer, and attain the wealth and status that would validate his parents' sacrifices. Anything short of perfection meant failure and was met with mental, emotional, and physical abuse.

This relentless programming propelled him to the University of Chicago and Harvard, a White House fellowship, and a C-suite position at a Fortune 125 company. Yet as his external successes mounted, so did an internal emptiness. Achievement became his addiction, each milestone a desperate attempt to prove he deserved acceptance and love. Meanwhile, his relationships withered. Constant comparison, unexplained rage, and deteriorating health left him asking: Who have I become?

After a profound moment of reckoning, he began the painstaking work of dismantling his childhood programming to create what he calls his "Minimally Viable Me." In doing so, he discovered that his worth wasn't something he needed to earn. He was already loved. Already enough. Simply by being.

Brutally honest and warmly funny, Desi 2.0 speaks to anyone who's felt imprisoned by inherited expectations, measured their worth through accomplishment, or found themselves living someone else's life.