Don't Get Old!: The Unfortunate Case of Long-term Care in America (Paperback) (ISBN-13: 9781965121542)

You have spent your entire life working, saving, and planning for the future. You have paid your taxes, raised your family, and done everything that was asked of you. And then, one day, you or someone you love can no longer manage alone. A fall. A diagnosis. A slow and quiet decline that nobody in your family saw coming or wanted to see.

What happens next will shock you.

Don't Get Old! The Unfortunate Case of Long-Term Care in America is the book that the healthcare industry, the insurance lobby, and the United States Congress would prefer you never read. It is a clear-eyed, unflinching examination of a system so deeply broken that its failures have become normalized, accepted as an unfortunate but inevitable feature of American life rather than what they actually are: the predictable consequence of decades of political cowardice, deliberate inaction, and the quiet prioritization of profit over people.

More than 70 million Americans will need some form of long-term care in their lifetimes. Most of them have no idea what that care will cost, who will provide it, or how they will pay for it. The average annual cost of a private nursing home room now exceeds $100,000. Home care, which most people prefer and which keeps families intact, is underfunded, understaffed, and structurally undervalued. Medicaid, the program that ultimately catches most Americans who fall through the cracks, was never designed to be a long-term care system. It became one by default, and it shows.

But this book is not simply an indictment of a broken system. It is an explanation of how the system got this way, and who benefits from keeping it exactly as it is.

Don't Get Old! follows the money, traces the politics, and names the mechanisms. It walks the reader through the history of failed reform from the King-Anderson bill of 1961 through the collapse of the CLASS Act in 2013 and the ongoing burial of Medicare for All in the present day. It examines the Dunning-Kruger dynamics that allow legislators with no clinical training and no personal experience of poverty to confidently design systems they fundamentally do not understand. It documents the human and moral cost of those design failures in the lives of real families, families who did everything right and still found themselves financially destroyed, emotionally exhausted, and entirely alone.

This is not a partisan book. The failures documented here span administrations of both parties, Congresses controlled by both sides of the aisle, and policy traditions that cross ideological lines. What unites them is not politics but something more fundamental: a collective failure of moral imagination, an unwillingness to look directly at what it means to grow old in America without resources, without support, and without a system designed to catch you.

Don't Get Old! is a wake-up call for every American who plans to age, which is to say, for all of us. It is a demand for accountability from the institutions that have failed us, a tribute to the families and caregivers who have compensated for those failures with their own bodies and savings and sleep, and ultimately a call to action for a country that still has time to get this right.

The question is whether we have the will to try.