From Him, Not Them: A Young Woman's Guide to Relying on God for Validation, Identity, and Guidance (Paperback) (ISBN-13: 9798998521300)

If your superpower wish is to be invisible, you might want to reconsider.

Sure, it sounds convenient when you're trying to dodge chores, skip a test, or avoid drama. But being overlooked like you don't matter? That's not a superpower.

I know what it's like to crave being seen, valued, and loved. After a breakup left me feeling invisible, I chased worth through achievements, approval, and appearance-until it led me into an eating disorder.

I'm not the only one. For twenty years, I've mentored young women caught in this same draining cycle. We search for meaning, worth, and direction in grades, sports, relationships, or social media-things that can't meet our deepest needs. What if we've been looking in the wrong place all along?

From Him, Not Them shares honest stories from young women who've wrestled with identity, insecurity, and the pressure to measure up. You'll discover: -

• How to stop hustling for approval
• Why feelings make a terrible GPS
• The cost of stressing over solutions
• Why self-sufficiency wears you out
• The danger of flirting with spiritual darkness
• How to walk in step with the Holy Spirit

You don't have to keep looking outside your relationship with God for what He longs to give you. True security comes from Him, not them.