Get to Know Your Kid Again: 2,000 Questions for Healing Broken Bonds after Divorce, Parental Alienation, Estrangement or Family Court Separation (Paperback) (ISBN-13: 9798245998534)

They did not stop loving you.
They stopped feeling safe enough to speak.

Most broken parent child relationships do not explode in one dramatic moment.
They fade. Messages left on read.
Calls that go unanswered.
Holidays that pass without a voice on the other end.
Years go by, and no one quite knows how it happened.

This book was written for that silence.

Not to diagnose you.
Not to defend you.
Not to win an argument or prove who was right.

It was written to build a bridge where words stopped working.

Inside are questions. Not casual ones. Not clever ones, but questions shaped by real emotional wounds, by loss, by estrangement, by the fear of saying the wrong thing and making it worse.

They are designed to open doors without pushing them and to invite honesty without triggering shutdown.
To make conversation possible again when every attempt before ended in pain or nothing at all.

This approach works because it does not demand agreement.
It does not rewrite history nor force apologies or explanations.

It slows things down and replaces reaction with reflection.

Parents will find a way to reach their child without pleading, lecturing, or talking themselves deeper into rejection.

Adult children will finally find words for feelings they have carried for years without ever being allowed to name them.

Therapists, counselors, and faith leaders will recognize what this does almost immediately. It honors emotional boundaries while gently restoring trust, memory, and a sense of self that was lost somewhere along the way.

This is not about forcing reconciliation.
It is about making reconnection possible.

And if you have been erased, silenced or shut out of a relationship you still love, this book offers something rare.

A way back into the conversation.