Getting Ahead of the Gayme: Man First, Gay Second (Paperback) (ISBN-13: 9781635681680)

Your relationship isn't working. The guy you like flaked on you for the third time. You are frustrated. You are newly gay. You don't know how to date. Your friends are telling you that you're being unreasonable. You're tired of being single. You have trouble really connecting with yourself to experience unconditional love. Let this book make you laugh, make you cry, give you a few a-ha moments, and make you change the way you view dating as a gay man. I'm Mason, and I'm just like you. I've just been around the dating block a while longer than you as a professional matchmaker, that's all. Your brain fascinates me, and I think I have a few scientific presumptions and studies I wish to share to give you your own bird's-eye view of how you connect with others. My heart has been broken, I've broken a few hearts, and I realize that there are some behavioral patterns that gay man elicit that make them, well, a bit predictable. Let me give you some gossipy juice to drink and some compatibility assessments to balance that sweetness. Let me open my heart to you as a human being, serve you a few logistical tricks of the trade along the way, and let me label the guy that isn't the right match for you. Let me inspire you, and let me change you for the better. All you have to do is live with an open heart and mind and see both sides of the coin. Heads or tails?