How to End Things Well With Your Ex: A Guide to Moving On Without Making It a War (Paperback) (ISBN-13: 9798259296411)

This is not a book about getting your ex back. It's not about revenge, winning, or pretending you're fine when you're not. It's about something harder - and more useful: learning to end things well.

With brutal honesty, real humor, and zero sugarcoating, Noah C. Valencia - twice divorced, three kids from two relationships, now happily remarried - shares everything he's learned about surviving a breakup without losing your mind, your dignity, or your kids' trust in the process.

• Getting through the first brutal weeks without making decisions you'll regret
• Managing co-parenting with an ex you can barely look at right now
• Talking to your kids about the separation at any age
• Navigating new partners, blended families, and shared celebrations
• Understanding why you keep ending up in the same relationship with different people
• Rebuilding your social life, your confidence, and your sense of self

This is the book nobody gives you when the relationship ends - but everyone needs.

Grounded in psychology, illustrated with examples from Marriage Story, Fleabag, Ted Lasso, and Euphoria, and told with the kind of self-deprecating honesty that only comes from someone who has genuinely been through it.

"Separating well is also a form of loving. This book reminds you that starting over is possible - without hurting anyone along the way."