Life After College: A journey (Paperback) (ISBN-13: 9789379716835)

I never expected life after college to be so overwhelming. As I transitioned from university life into the real world, the rush to build a career, make money, and prove myself to others took over. I quickly realized that my initial excitement for the future was clouded by the pressures of work and expectations. I was caught in a never-ending cycle of ambition and stress, neglecting the things that truly mattered-my personal peace, relationships, and sense of purpose. I was on the verge of burning out when I made the difficult decision to step away from everything for a while.

I took a trip to Enugu, hoping to find some clarity and regain my sense of self. It was in Enugu that I discovered the importance of slowing down, reflecting, and truly understanding what I wanted from life. I realized that I had been chasing success at the cost of my well-being and that I needed to make changes if I wanted to live a more balanced, fulfilling life. I returned to Lagos with a new perspective, determined to make adjustments that would allow me to live life on my own terms. I began by simplifying my work schedule, learning to say no to things that didn't align with my personal goals. I prioritized the projects that truly brought me joy and fulfillment, leaving behind the constant hustle that had once defined me. I also made time for personal growth, something I had neglected for years. I reintroduced healthy habits into my routine, like morning runs and evening walks, which helped clear my mind and brought me a sense of calm. I found that the more I made time for stillness, the more clarity I had about my next steps. I stopped rushing through life and started living more intentionally, focusing on being present in each moment.