Life Out of Alignment: Living Out of Step (Paperback) (ISBN-13: 9798295886140)

Tom has never quite lined up with his own life.

He lives a beat behind himself.

Shaped by early loss and a quiet sense that something essential is missing, he spends decades trying to build something solid-through ambition, reinvention, and a string of deeply felt, transformative relationships he can't quite get right or hold onto.

From the outside, it looks like progress.

A career. A direction. A life taking shape.

From the inside, something never quite settles.

Tom loves deeply-but not always well. He holds on too long, lets go too late, and misses what's right in front of him. The same patterns follow him, even when he thinks he's left them behind.

Revelations come to Tom too late to be of use or repair. Motion is mistaken for maturity.

There are no clean victories here. No moment where everything finally clicks into place.

Only hard-earned awareness, small corrections, and the growing suspicion that the problem isn't what keeps happening to him-

It's what he keeps bringing with him.

Tom's life didn't fall apart.

It simply never quite fell into place.