Living in the Black (Paperback) (ISBN-13: 9781964642406)

In this powerful, emotionally resonant exploration of modern womanhood, Living in the Black reframes strength, burnout, and survival through a lens that is both deeply personal and culturally incisive.

Tiana K. Reeves invites readers into the quiet, exhausting spaces where resilience is demanded but rarely replenished-where women, especially Black women, are praised for carrying more than they should and shamed for needing rest. Through the striking metaphor of a life ledger, Reeves exposes the unseen costs of overfunctioning: emotional labor that goes unpaid, intuition ignored, boundaries crossed, and identities slowly eroded in the name of being "strong."

Each chapter traces the debits that quietly accumulate across careers, motherhood, relationships, and inherited expectations-and the radical credits required to restore balance. From corporate boardrooms to single-parent households, from cultural wisdom passed down to self-trust hard won, Living in the Black gives language to what so many women feel but struggle to articulate.

This is not a manifesto for hustling harder or enduring more. It is a reckoning. A call to recognize when strength becomes self-abandonment-and an invitation to step out of emotional overdraft and into sustainability, clarity, and wholeness.

With warmth, honesty, and lived authority, Living in the Black challenges the myth that depletion is the price of success. It asks a necessary question: What if survival wasn't the goal-what if sustainability was?

This book speaks to readers who crave depth beneath self-help-where insight is earned, not prescribed, and healing begins with awareness. It opens space for conversation about burnout, cultural silence, and the courage it takes to choose yourself in systems that benefit from your exhaustion.

Adults (18+)

Women navigating career, motherhood, leadership, and identity

Readers of personal development, cultural commentary, and emotionally grounded nonfiction

Burnout and emotional labor

The cost of overfunctioning

Black womanhood and cultural expectations

Boundaries, rest, and self-trust

Sustainability vs. survival

Reclaiming agency and personal worth

Living in the Black resonates with readers of Rest Is Resistance, Set Boundaries, Find Peace, and Untamed, offering a culturally specific yet universally relevant framework for understanding burnout and reclaiming balance. Its life-ledger metaphor makes it especially compelling for book clubs, leadership discussions, women's circles, and wellness spaces. Grounded in lived experience and cultural insight, this book doesn't just validate exhaustion-it shows readers how to stop normalizing it and start living in the black.