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The authors share lessons they learned about conflict, whether a small fight, a real battle, or even a period of war, to help couples reset into a different state of love by using a dynamic five-step model to rebuild and maintain a foundation of vulnerability, empathy, and intimacy.
Conflict and turmoil--the intimacy of everyday life--is the foundation great relationships are built on. Based on decades of helping couples address conflict and achieve long-lasting love, the authors created a simple five-step process for reconciling differences, taking couples in crisis from rupture to repair.
Their tool--the PACER model (Pause, Accountability, Collaboration, Experiment, and Review)--takes into account cultural differences, past hurts, and current crises. It is an opportunity for not just healing but for growth. Packed with interactive exercises that make real change possible, Love, Crash, Rebuild offers readers in any type of romantic partnership--straight, gay, nonbinary, interracial, etc.--a single toolbox that can help bring a new understanding of what a successful relationship should look like.
This groundbreaking new book includes dozens of client anecdotes and stories of the authors' relationship as a mixed-race couple, who are also couples' therapists, that highlight how a simple process can address and resolve all ruptures, large or small. Couples will learn how to take a deeper look at what is lying underneath their issues and find a healthier outlook on their relationship.
Mark B. Borg, Jr., PhD, is a community and clinical psychologist and a psychoanalyst practicing in New York City. He is a founding partner of The Community Consulting Group, a consulting firm that trains community stakeholders, local governments, and other organizations to use psychoanalytic techniques in community rebuilding and revitalization. He is a supervisor of psychotherapy at the William Alanson White Institute and has written extensively about the intersection of psychoanalysis and community crisis intervention. He is the author of Don't Be a Dick and coauthor of the Irrelationship series.
Haruna Miyamoto-Borg is a licensed psychotherapist with more than fifteen years of experience working in New York City in private practice. She specializes in working with couples of diverse backgrounds, ethnicities, social-class, and sexual orientations. Early in her career, she dedicated herself to working in the not-for-profit sector. She worked for the Center for Urban Community Services--the largest non-profit organization serving the homeless population in New York City. Currently, Miyamoto-Borg is in training at the prestigious Ackerman Institute for The Family in New York City. Her blog on Psychology Today is entitled "Couples and Culture."
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