Love In Wonderland: A Family's Escape from War and a Son's Search for Home (Paperback) (ISBN-13: 9798995158509)

What does it mean to search for home ... when home has been taken from you?

Love in Wonderland is a powerful and deeply moving memoir of survival, identity, and the quiet, enduring search for belonging.

Born into the aftermath of the CIA Secret War in Laos, Hanh grew up in a world shaped by loss, displacement, and silence. His father is gone-claimed by a war he barely understands. His mother carries wounds she cannot speak of. And the family he depends on is held together not by comfort, but by necessity.

When the new communist regime marks their family for persecution, escape is no longer a choice-it is survival.
They flee across borders into Thailand, trading one danger for another. Inside the refugee camps, hunger becomes a constant companion. Hope feels distant. Childhood disappears early, replaced by responsibility, fear, and the quiet understanding that no one is coming to save them.

But survival alone is not enough.

Led by a determined stepfather willing to risk everything, the family escapes once more-this time into the unknown. What they find is a remote stretch of land they come to call "Wonderland"-a fragile place of temporary peace, where the soil is generous, the rivers are kind, and, for the first time in years, they can breathe without fear.
Yet even in Wonderland, life is far from simple.

Through the eyes of a child-and the wisdom of the man he becomes-Hanh witnesses the quiet struggles that shape a family: forbidden love bound by ancient clan traditions, the invisible weight of cultural expectations, and the unspoken grief carried by those who have lost too much.

His older brothers walk their own paths-searching for love, meaning, and a place where they can finally belong. Some choices lead toward hope. Others lead back toward danger. And not every journey ends the same.

As Hanh comes of age, he must begin to understand his own place in a world that has never felt stable. He inherits not land or certainty-but something far heavier: the responsibility to keep moving forward, even when the path is unclear.

This is more than a story of escape.

It is a story of:

• Family loyalty tested by hardship
• Love constrained by tradition-and transformed by sacrifice
• Faith, doubt, and the search for something greater
• The resilience of a people who refuse to disappear

Told with lyrical honesty and emotional depth, Love in Wonderland offers a rare and intimate glimpse into the Iu Mien experience-where identity is shaped by ancestry, survival, and the quiet strength to endure.

At its heart lies a universal truth:

Sometimes, the journey is not about finding a place to return to...
But learning how to carry home within you wherever you are.

Author: Jeff Thungc
ISBN-13: 9798995158509
Publisher: Iu Mien Heritage Press
Language: English
Published: 05/23/2026
Pages: 176
Format: Paperback
Weight: 0.46lbs
Size: 8.50h x 5.50w x 0.41d