Parallel Journeys: A Memoir (Paperback) (ISBN-13: 9781477462706)

A con man betrays trust. A thief steals innocent childhood dreams. An alcoholic paves the road to addiction. If all three were your father, would you forgive him? If you were that father, would you expect or accept forgiveness? There were generations of alcoholism, violence, and codependency modeling a way of life that was adopted quite unconsciously by both a father and a daughter. The father imitated his parent's fighting, lying, and drinking. The daughter imprinted the same roles witnessed while she grew up. Eventually she married a man that was very similar to her father. In alternating stories of their separate experiences they lead you through the damaged psyche played out in their behaviors. The daughter began to relive the role of her parents with her own marriage before she eventually recognized that there was a way to break patterns, and with help, a way to learn how to make use of choice and apply it positively. Follow the father's life down into the darkness of a prison cell and his recognition of the patterns repeating themselves in his life. Through tough inner work and the God given urge to be a decent human being he redefined the negative beliefs he had grown up with. After a thirty three year separation, through an act of kindness and another of guilt, Kathy was given the information she had always wanted - to know where her father was. Kathy and her father, Ray, reunite, compare stories, and realize what an incredible parallel journey they had undergone.

Author: H. Ray Goodenough, Kathy Rem
ISBN-10: 1477462708
ISBN-13: 9781477462706
Publisher: Createspace Independent Publishing Platform
Language: English
Published: 10/25/2012
Pages: 264
Format: Paperback
Weight: 0.79lbs
Size: 9.00h x 6.00w x 0.55d