Perfect Is Boring (and It Tastes Like Kale): Finding Belonging and Purpose Without Changing Who You Are (Hardcover) (ISBN-13: 9780593728246)

What if we accepted our struggles and stopped trying to be someone we're not? In this poignant, hilarious book, the bestselling co-author of I'll Be There (But I'll Be Wearing Sweatpants) shares her experiments in finding our way back to each other.

Jess Johnston used to feel alone in her mess. In a random burst of courage, she started sharing about those insecurities and struggles out loud, and what she found shocked her. Again and again, people replied, "Me too! I thought I was the only one!"

Over the last decade she's reached hundreds of thousands of women with her message of authenticity and refreshing realness, and this is what she's found: Women are really, really hard on themselves, and we should stop it.

We often believe that if we just "did better", "worked harder", "were less messy/flawed/human", our life would be infinitely better and everyone would like us more, therefore giving us the belonging we want. In her research, Jess has discovered that the exact opposite is true. It isn't our lack of perfection that isolates us--it's our authenticity about our imperfections that bring us together.

In Perfect is Boring (and It Tastes Like Kale), Jess reminds readers that no one's living a perfect life, and there's a powerful interpersonal connection that happens when we're real about it. With honesty, heart, and humor, Johnston takes on lies she's believed and the lessons she's learning (and relearning) about cultivating an authentic life, including:

• If I'm rejected, I will die. (We won't.)
• I'm a junior varsity adult, and the best spot for me is usually the bench. (Nope, we've got to get in there and play).
• My job is to keep people happy and make sure they like me. (Excuse me while I go hide in my closet and have an anxiety attack.)

Jess reminds us that the answers are in us already. They're in wearing shoes that fit, in letting ourselves be ourselves, and in accepting that we're a lot--a lotta mess, and a lotta great too.

Author: Jess Johnston
ISBN-10: 0593728246
ISBN-13: 9780593728246
Publisher: Convergent Books
Language: English
Published: 02/04/2025
Pages: 192
Format: Hardcover
Weight: 1.25lbs