Raising an Athlete: The Real Journey of Parenting, Pressure, Identity, and Letting Go (Paperback) (ISBN-13: 9798188952082)

What happens after the game may shape your child more than anything that happened during it.

Youth sports can build confidence, resilience, discipline, and character-but they can also create pressure, comparison, burnout, and fear of failure. Parents want to help, yet in the emotional moments after a mistake, a benching, a loss, or a difficult season, even well-intended words can add more weight.

In Raising an Athlete, longtime coach, sports parent, and 75-time national champion Kayla Lee Bailey explores the invisible side of youth sports: the car rides home, the sideline reactions, the family sacrifices, the hard conversations, and the moments when a parent must decide whether to push, protect, speak up, step back, or simply listen.

Through honest stories, humor, practical tools, and the signature Car Ride Method(TM), this book helps parents navigate:

- Confidence without constant praise
- Failure without shame
- Playing time, benching, and perceived unfairness
- Difficult coaches and harmful environments
- Quitting, switching teams, and staying too long
- Financial pressure and family sacrifice
- Injury, fear, and returning to play
- Burnout that does not always look like quitting
- Parenting neurodivergent athletes
- Athlete identity beyond the uniform
- The difference between support, rescue, advocacy, and control

This is not a book about raising a professional athlete.

It is about raising a human who can handle pressure, recover from disappointment, speak up for themselves, stay connected to who they are, and know that their worth is not determined by a scoreboard.

Because your athlete does not need another coach on the ride home.

They need you-steady, honest, connected, and willing to see the person underneath the performance.

Presence over performance. Every time.