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The Family Project: Discovering the Road Beyond Shame (Paperback) (ISBN-13: 9780997160963)
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xThe Family: People Helping People Project is a community-based therapy initiative in the Bahamas led by Dr. David Allen. The program utilizes Allen's Contemplative Discovery Pathway Theory (CDPT) to help individuals move from a state of toxic shame and social fragmentation toward authentic healing. Participants share deeply personal narratives within a non-judgmental environment to release long-held trauma, addiction, and grief. Through the practice of mindfulness and silence, members learn to dismantle their "False Self" and discover a life rooted in love and forgiveness. Personal testimonials illustrate how this group process fosters individual resocialization and community restoration. The Family Project offers a spiritual and psychological framework for reclaiming human dignity after profound suffering. Chapter 1: The Family introduces a group therapy model originally developed to combat the social fragmentation caused by the crack cocaine epidemic in the Bahamas. "The Family" provides a safe space for resocialization, where sharing personal stories of pain helps release the negativity of shame. Readers learn how this community-based intervention fosters healing bonds through storytelling, love, and non-judgmental listening.
Chapter 2: Shame is defined as the "Master Emotion" and "Self-Hatred Aimed at ME," distinguishing it from guilt as a feeling of being fundamentally flawed rather than just making a mistake. This chapter explores the "shame whip" and how hidden shame destroys relationships by creating a gap between who we are and who we expect to be. It emphasizes that healing requires the counterintuitive act of exposing our vulnerability.
Chapter 3: The Contemplative Discovery Pathway Theory traces the human journey from the Natural Self through the defensive Shame False Self. It explains how unmet needs for safety, connection, and empowerment lead to a "hurt trail" that blocks our development. The theory offers a roadmap for emptying the "sponge" of the heart to move from fear and anger toward an "Authentic Gracious Self."
Chapter 4: The Evil Violence Tunnel examines the destructive link between unaddressed shame and the "Evil Violence Tunnel," a state of murderous rage where cognitive functioning shuts down. The chapter analyzes the stages of this tunnel, from emotional numbness to ethical fragmentation, often triggered by humiliation or rejection. It offers practical "perceptual shift" techniques to manage anger and prevent the cycle of revenge.
Chapter 5: The False Self: The Internal Saboteur defines the "False Self" as a defensive mask worn to hide inner pain, functioning as a perverse rescuer that promises safety but delivers isolation. This chapter details how mechanisms like self-absorption, self-gratification, and control act as shields against abandonment and rejection. It challenges readers to drop the mask and embrace the vulnerability required to find their true, authentic selves.
Chapter 6: The Still Point: The Healing of Silence presents silence not as emptiness, but as a powerful healing force that absorbs pain. Dr. Allen explores "The Still Point," a contemplative state where chronological time meets the eternal and the "False Self" melts away. Through personal anecdotes and group therapy examples, the chapter illustrates how cultivating stillness allows individuals to connect with the healing presence of God.
Chapter 7: Discovery: The Freedom To Be Fully You focuses on moving beyond mere recovery to "Discovery"-the liberation of the Authentic True Self from the shackles of shame. Through the redemptive story of André Chappelle, it outlines the seven steps of "Discovery," including surrender, commitment, and vocation. It encourages readers to squeeze the shame from their hearts to experience the freedom of love, humility, and gratitude.
Author: David F. Allen
ISBN-10: 0997160969
ISBN-13: 9780997160963
Publisher: Sudden Change Media
Language: English
Published: 12/31/2025
Pages: 210
Format: Paperback
Weight: 0.94lbs
Size: 10.00h x 8.00w x 0.44d
Chapter 2: Shame is defined as the "Master Emotion" and "Self-Hatred Aimed at ME," distinguishing it from guilt as a feeling of being fundamentally flawed rather than just making a mistake. This chapter explores the "shame whip" and how hidden shame destroys relationships by creating a gap between who we are and who we expect to be. It emphasizes that healing requires the counterintuitive act of exposing our vulnerability.
Chapter 3: The Contemplative Discovery Pathway Theory traces the human journey from the Natural Self through the defensive Shame False Self. It explains how unmet needs for safety, connection, and empowerment lead to a "hurt trail" that blocks our development. The theory offers a roadmap for emptying the "sponge" of the heart to move from fear and anger toward an "Authentic Gracious Self."
Chapter 4: The Evil Violence Tunnel examines the destructive link between unaddressed shame and the "Evil Violence Tunnel," a state of murderous rage where cognitive functioning shuts down. The chapter analyzes the stages of this tunnel, from emotional numbness to ethical fragmentation, often triggered by humiliation or rejection. It offers practical "perceptual shift" techniques to manage anger and prevent the cycle of revenge.
Chapter 5: The False Self: The Internal Saboteur defines the "False Self" as a defensive mask worn to hide inner pain, functioning as a perverse rescuer that promises safety but delivers isolation. This chapter details how mechanisms like self-absorption, self-gratification, and control act as shields against abandonment and rejection. It challenges readers to drop the mask and embrace the vulnerability required to find their true, authentic selves.
Chapter 6: The Still Point: The Healing of Silence presents silence not as emptiness, but as a powerful healing force that absorbs pain. Dr. Allen explores "The Still Point," a contemplative state where chronological time meets the eternal and the "False Self" melts away. Through personal anecdotes and group therapy examples, the chapter illustrates how cultivating stillness allows individuals to connect with the healing presence of God.
Chapter 7: Discovery: The Freedom To Be Fully You focuses on moving beyond mere recovery to "Discovery"-the liberation of the Authentic True Self from the shackles of shame. Through the redemptive story of André Chappelle, it outlines the seven steps of "Discovery," including surrender, commitment, and vocation. It encourages readers to squeeze the shame from their hearts to experience the freedom of love, humility, and gratitude.
Author: David F. Allen
ISBN-10: 0997160969
ISBN-13: 9780997160963
Publisher: Sudden Change Media
Language: English
Published: 12/31/2025
Pages: 210
Format: Paperback
Weight: 0.94lbs
Size: 10.00h x 8.00w x 0.44d
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