The Light Switch Myth: A begginer's guide to creating realistic and sustainable change (Paperback) (ISBN-13: 9798263048815)

The Light Switch Myth challenges the idea that change should be instant, permanent, and all-or-nothing. Drawing from my own lived experiences, alongside my understanding of multiple therapeutic approaches and proven models of change, it blends personal stories, compassionate insights, with practical evidence based strategies to create a new vision of what sustainable transformation looks like.

This book is for anyone who has felt defeated by "quick fix" promises or overwhelmed by the pressure to do everything at once. Instead, it offers a gentler path: one step at a time, rooted in self-compassion, flexibility, and realistic tools that actually last. It can be a starting place to shift away from perfectionism, harsh inner dialogue, and unrealistic expectations of what real change looks like. I have travelled this path and know it is possible to integrate new approaches and strategies that are kinder, more sustainable, and ultimately more rewarding. I wrote this book to help others who struggle in the ways I once did and sometimes still do.

Inside, not only will you learn about the origin and cost of some of our unhelpful and limiting beliefs and strategies but you will find encouragement, relatable examples, and small practices that help you trust yourself, quiet shame, and create meaningful progress without burning out.

Key themes of the book are:

• The relationship we have with ourselves is foundational to quality of life and quality of connection with others Learning to respond to ourselves with compassion and unconditional love is possible and does make a difference.
• Change/growth is non linear
• Shame, guilt, perfectionism block progress and they do not actually work as a motivator
• Personalizing our efforts based on our own values and internal feedback lends to change being meaningful, sustainable, and often enjoyable
• Small steady shifts/steps work better and faster than big leaps/overhaul
• Choosing support and resources that mirror compassionate approaches is more effective than those that pressure or make false promises/exaggerated claims.

We all hope for support, encouragement, and understanding from others, but what if we could also learn how to provide that to ourselves, particularly when we are struggling to create change, grow, or heal in ways that are important to us. What if we aligned our efforts towards growth and change to our own personal values and heart felt desires. What if we learned to listen to our inner guide to find what is a fit for us and personalized our plans so that they embody our likes, want, and needs. And what if we felt deeply grounded in the truth that we are worthy and good enough just the way we are so that our efforts towards change rise up from hopes and not from feeling we have to be better.

Early Praise for The Light Switch Myth
"What a gift you are offering to others with sharing your knowledge and understanding of healing."
"The book shines in its use of original imagery and relatable constructs, making complex concepts feel accessible."
"The book has a decisively safe, non-judgmental tone that is perfect for the genre."
"This book feels like a gentle coach in your corner. Kerisma's writing is encouraging, realistic, and full of empathy"
"It's the kind of book that touches your heart and leaves you thinking long after you've finished reading."

Author: Kerisma A. Vere
ISBN-13: 9798263048815
Publisher: Independently Published
Language: English
Published: 09/06/2025
Pages: 216
Format: Paperback
Weight: 0.65lbs
Size: 9.00h x 6.00w x 0.49d