The Performance Self (Paperback) (ISBN-13: 9798186089070)

You've learned how to succeed. But have you ever learned how to stop performing? Many of us spend years becoming exactly who the world rewards: capable, reliable, accomplished, endlessly adaptable. We build successful careers, healthy relationships, and respectable lives-yet beneath the achievements lingers a quiet exhaustion that rest alone cannot heal. What if the person who earns the applause isn't the person you truly are? In The Performance Self, physician and neuroscientist Oliver Cas introduces a powerful new framework for understanding one of the hidden psychological struggles of modern life: the gradual construction of a self designed to secure acceptance, admiration, and belonging-until the performance becomes impossible to distinguish from identity. Drawing from neuroscience, developmental psychology, attachment theory, and clinical observation, this book explores how childhood adaptations become adult identities, why high-functioning people often feel strangely disconnected from themselves, and how the brain learns to confuse survival with authenticity. Rather than offering quick fixes or motivational slogans, The Performance Self invites readers into a deeper conversation about identity, achievement, and emotional freedom. Inside you'll discover: - Why success can coexist with profound inner emptiness. - How early relationships shape the identities we carry into adulthood. - The neuroscience behind chronic emotional exhaustion. - Why authenticity often feels frightening-even when it is exactly what we long for. - Practical reflections to help you recognize the difference between who you became and who you are. Written with the insight of neuroscience and the emotional depth of literary nonfiction, The Performance Self is for anyone who has ever wondered why life can look successful from the outside while feeling strangely unfamiliar from within. Because the hardest role to abandon is the one that once kept you safe.

Author: Oliver Cas
ISBN-13: 9798186089070
Publisher: Independently Published
Language: English
Published: 07/08/2026
Pages: 70
Format: Paperback
Weight: 0.21lbs
Size: 9.00h x 6.00w x 0.18d