The Power of Conflict (Paperback) (ISBN-13: 9781647012625)

Conflict leads us through paths where we either thrive in our relationships, or we strive one against the other. Relationships thrive, promote growth, and expand creativity if problems are resolved in meaningful ways. Opposite of thriving is striving. When conflict is used as a chasm for control over others, violence, threats, and selfish gain, it's harmful to everyone involved. Conflict must be laced with love as in the yin and yang concept. They coexist. While love does not always mean agreement, it is the gateway to compassion and understanding. The interconnectedness of love and conflict is meaningful yet complex in their unique enjoining. Although complex and of sometimes uncomfortable, maximized potential is interwoven in conflict and the struggles of life. It is through the struggle that loves guides one to achievements. Through conflict, love is tested, and commitment is defined.

The Power of Conflict is a holistic approach to conflict and dispels the myths that (a) conflict must be hostile, (b) conflict must be confrontational, or (c) conflict must be physical, verbal, and/or emotional aggressive to get what you want. The Power of Conflict teaches us that during disagreement, positive expressions can emerge, unleashing innovative solutions and brilliance. The information herein will help you (a) become intentional about your decisions, thoughts, and actions, (b) harness your unlimited spiritual virtues, (c) develop inner peace, (d) empower you with traits to build healthy relationships with others, and (e) view problems as an opportunity to create solutions for yourself and the universe. To get you, there are practical skill-building exercises to guide you through each of the twelve commandments for resolving conflict and manifesting your relationship dreams.

Lastly, understand that conflict simply conveys it is time for a change. Change is inevitable, so don't be afraid of it. Through change, you maximize your personal power and potential, thereby allowing your brilliance to shine as you cultivate inner peace and intimacy in your relationship.