The Repair Habit: How Couples Bounce Back After Conflict (Paperback) (ISBN-13: 9789376555123)

Most couples do not need fewer arguments. They need a better way to come back together. The Repair Habit is a practical guide to couples conflict repair for real fights in real life: the ones that start over something small, escalate fast, and leave a residue that lasts longer than the topic. Samira Devane shows you how to recognise your fight pattern early, use clear de-escalation steps before you say the thing you cannot unsay, and make a time-out agreement that protects the relationship instead of punishing one another. You will learn how trigger awareness works in the body, how to return to the conversation without restarting the battle, and how to practise listening after fights in a way that restores dignity on both sides. When you have caused harm, you will learn how to offer an apology that rebuilds trust - one that names impact, takes responsibility, and includes a believable change. This book is for couples who love each other but feel stuck in recurring conflict, as well as partners navigating high stress, busy schedules, or long-standing sensitivities. The goal is not perfect communication. It is rebuilding emotional safety so that disagreements do not turn into distance, contempt, or repeat damage. With simple scripts, repair conversations, and weekly routines you can actually maintain, The Repair Habit helps you turn rupture into reconnection - and make recovery part of how your relationship works.

Author: Samira Devane
ISBN-10: 9376555120
ISBN-13: 9789376555123
Publisher: Mindful Pages
Language: English
Published: 05/26/2026
Pages: 254
Format: Paperback
Weight: 0.76lbs
Size: 9.00h x 6.00w x 0.58d