Trap Door To Nirvana: Finding what actually works (Paperback) (ISBN-13: 9798253560167)

Living with AIDS during the epidemic, Jari did what many do in crisis: he turned to God. But as a gay man, the Christian God he'd grown up with had already made clear he wasn't welcome. The church's answers felt hollow against the raw terror of dying-and whatever confidence he'd had in Christianity collapsed entirely.

Studying the world's spiritual traditions, he discovered that Buddhism offered something Christianity hadn't: the actual promise of a stressless state-nirvana-reachable in this lifetime. Not heaven after death, but freedom from fear and suffering now. That discovery changed everything. Desperate to escape the constant fear of death that gripped him, he threw himself into Zen practice and traveled to India to learn from a spiritual master. Ultimately he arrived at nonduality-the stressless state beyond identity, beyond fear, beyond the labels of a lifetime.

But when a shadow appeared on a kidney scan, mysterious panic attacks struck without warning-the Dark Night of the Soul, nonduality's hidden price. His ordeal was particularly brutal: he was navigating the Dark Night while simultaneously surviving AIDS. Every visit to the ER raised the same impossible question: Is this existential terror, or am I dying? The two were impossible to separate. But as his health slowly recovered, so did the stressless state.

Along the way, the book bears witness to an often overlooked chapter of the epidemic: the Christian and Jewish activists in Toronto who showed up for the dying when few others would-and whose courage left its mark on Jari's own spiritual journey.

If you've ever stood at the edge of your own mortality and found your faith had nothing left to offer-this book was written for you.