What to Do When He Says, I Don't Love You Anymore: An Action Plan to Regain Confidence, Power and Control (Paperback) (ISBN-13: 9780785265153)

Discarding popular Christian advice to use romance and sweetness to draw a wandering spouse back into a marriage, Dr. David Clarke lays out a tough-love action plan for abused and betrayed spouses to rebuild their marriages through proven steps that will restore self-confidence one step at a time.

"I don't love you anymore." These simple words have the power to send the listener into shock, denial, and desperation. The obvious response is to ask oneself, "What can I do to win my partner back?" In this classic book, Christian psychologist Dr. David Clarke provides just the battle plan needed.

Contrary to what many relationship "experts" recommend--weak, passive plans that involve begging or romancing a spouse back--Clarke offers an approach that he calls guerilla love, which essentially turns the tables on the wandering spouse.

• Drawing healthy boundaries and restoring your self-esteem
• Five things your spouse really means when saying, "I don't love you anymore"
• The most popular "exit lies" and how to see through them
• Classic symptoms of a person who is having an affair
• Learning when it's time to walk away

This book will remind you that you are worthy of love, that you are not a doormat, and that you are a prize. Dr. Clarke will empower and equip you to make the best and most God-honoring attempt at saving your marriage.