Why MOMMY and DADDY Don't Love Each Other Anymore: It's Not Your Fault - Helping Children Heal When Love Falls Apart (Paperback) (ISBN-13: 9781998748426)

Children don't cause divorce. But they carry it in ways you don't even realize.

When a family changes shape through separation or divorce, children carry questions they don't always know how to ask. They lie awake at night replaying conversations they only half understood. They watch their parents' faces for clues about whether life will ever feel normal again. And more often than not, they carry the heaviest questions completely alone.

Am I still safe? Am I still loved? Is any of this my fault?

Why MOMMY and DADDY Don't Love Each Other Anymore was written for every adult walking alongside a child through one of life's most painful transitions - the single mom or single dad navigating the road alone, the grandparent holding a hurting grandchild close, the teacher watching a child quietly withdraw, and the co-parenting team carrying the weight of divided homes and shared custody arrangements that never quite feel settled.

Divorce and separation reshape every member of a family - but children experience that reshaping in ways that adults often miss entirely. They don't always cry. They don't always act out. Sometimes they simply go quiet, become the family peacekeeper, or start carrying a weight of guilt and loyalty conflicts that no child should ever have to bear. This is the hidden cost of divorce that nobody talks about - and it is exactly what this book was written to address.

With warmth, compassion, and hard-won insight drawn from years of walking alongside hurting families, James C. Tanner guides you through what children truly feel at every stage of a family breakdown - what they need most, what they rarely say out loud, and how the adults who love them can become their greatest anchor of healing and hope - whether you are managing joint custody, navigating co-parenting across two households, working through child custody arrangements, or simply doing your best with a broken heart that hasn't finished healing yet.

Inside you will find compassionate, practical guidance on:

• What children of every age feel when parents separate - and why they rarely say it out loud
• How to answer the questions children are too afraid to ask, including the hardest one: Is this my fault?
• Why children in shared custody and co-parenting arrangements often carry hidden grief and loyalty conflicts that go unnoticed
• How single parents, grandparents, teachers, and extended family members can each play a vital role in a child's emotional healing
• How to recognize the signs that a child is struggling in silence before that silence becomes something harder to reach
• Practical tools for navigating divided homes, parentification, and the emotional complexity of life after divorce
• How to help a child rebuild their sense of safety, belonging, and hope - even when the adults around them are still hurting too

Divorce does not have to define a child's story. With the right support, the right understanding, and the right adults walking alongside them, children can heal. They can feel safe again. They can feel loved again. And they can grow up knowing that the end of their parents' marriage was never - not for a single moment - their fault.

Book 3 of the Healing For The Broken Heart Trilogy