You Should Be Grateful: Stories of Race, Identity, and Transracial Adoption (Hardcover) (ISBN-13: 9780807006511)

An adoption expert and transracial adoptee herself examines the unique perspectives and challenges these adoptees have as they navigate multiple cultures

"Your parents are so amazing for adopting you! You should be grateful that you were adopted."

Angela Tucker is a Black woman, adopted from foster care by white parents. She has heard this microaggression her entire life, usually from well-intentioned strangers who view her adoptive parents as noble saviors. She is grateful for many aspects of her life, but being transracially adopted involves layers of rejection, loss, and complexity that cannot be summed up so easily.

In "You Should Be Grateful," Tucker centers the experiences of adoptees to share deeply personal stories, well-researched history, and engrossing anecdotes from mentorship sessions with adopted youth. These perspectives challenge the fairy-tale narrative of adoption, giving way to a fuller story that explores the impacts of racism, classism, family, love, and belonging.

Author: Angela Tucker
ISBN-10: 0807006513
ISBN-13: 9780807006511
Publisher: Beacon Press
Language: English
Published: 04/18/2023
Pages: 208
Format: Hardcover
Weight: 0.95lbs
Size: 8.60h x 6.20w x 1.30d

Review Citation(s):
Kirkus Reviews 02/01/2023
Booklist 03/01/2023 pg. 7